My incisions at the base of my gums started loosening at around 3 weeks, and came out at around 4-6 weeks.  No big deal.  I have had surgery in my mouth before.
I could handle most hard foods and open my mouth fully at around 2 weeks.  This varies wildly depending on what is done.  I just had bone reduction and the masseter muscles were left alone.
The numbness took a little getting used to, but was largely gone on the lips and interior at 3 weeks.  6 months later I still have a numb strip from the chin up to just below the lower lip.
The worst swelling  started fading at around 2 weeks.  Jawline looked reasonable at 2 months.  The tip of my nose still has a little numbness and swelling at 6 months.

