Well the site crash terminated this thread at an unfortunate place in the narrative.  All the good stuff is gone.   
 Long story short:  I had my GRS in March 2020 with Dr. Brassard.  The surgery went well.  I flew home a week later by myself.  The incisions and sutures all healed up quickly and with no problems.  Unfortunately, I was left with ongoing pain that didn't go away.  I went back to Dr. Brassard a year later, but he couldn't see anything wrong, so there was nothing for him to fix.  (That unproductive visit cost me about $100 per minute!)  
I am now, 4 years later, gradually weaning myself off anti-inflammatory meds.  The pain is no longer continuous.  Interestingly, it seems to come and go on a 26-day cycle!!  
 Was it worth it?  Yes, I think so.  If I had to do it all over again, knowing how it would turn out, I might opt for something less invasive, like maybe an orchiectomy.  But, even with the pain, I like my new configuration.  I think I really did need it.  So maybe I'd do it the same all over again.