I can see why. My mother used to force my brother and i to bleach our mustaches and pluck our eyebrows(she would get really pissy if we refused.)As far as clothing goes she was okay, however I believe she was once anorexic because she used to not eat very much, but always would say that she did. One time when we were like 10 or 11 she saw that we were eating cheese-its and commented "you're getting too old to eat that much, you'll get fat." Later when I was 14 I developed an eating disorder, which was partly because of her behavior and partly because i didn't want to have"womanly features." She does this thing where she will do nice things for me which i'm very thankful for, but whenever we have a fight due to something nasty she said she would always mention how she's too nice to us and that we are terrible kids who have always been a problem. She told me recently that we almost caused my dad to leave her (which i never knew) and that it's not our fault we were born.