What's the difference between a cross dresser and a trans gendered person? About 20 years.
I always thought this was a joke with just a small nugget of truth. Lately, I have been feeling more and more that, maybe, my gender is wrong. I don't have a "woman trapped in a man's body", but more of a woman sharing a man's body with a man, and she is getting annoyed. I find that my background mental self image is more often a woman, or neutral than a man. Today I realized that it was about 20 years ago that I finally realized that I was a cross-dresser. Prior to this, there was no internet to explore and learn from, and this was not discussed in real life, and I had no way to collectively describe my feelings. Corporal Klinger was my only reference at this point.
I find my selection of clothes is more often than not feminine, without actually planning it that way. I have started to double check myself when I leave the house(or bedroom) to make sure I am dressed correctly. When I get to work, I have to remove my ear rings (food prep rule) and now I double check to make sure I don't have a bra on. I have had to remove my bra twice in the parking lot at work.
I have consciously decided to wear feminine clothes and light make up when I go shopping in the past. Lately, I have been half way through my errand list when realize I am very clearly in women's (or just as accurately, my)clothes and light make-up. It doesn't bother me any more.
Right now, I don't have a strong desire to transition, but it is no longer a no way idea. It is now something that I think I need to find out more about. For the first time, I realize I really need to see a therapist to help me sort a few things out. This is the first time I have clearly stated to myself that transition is now an option I need to explore and consider. I know there is a lot more to consider.
Thanks for letting me mumble to myself. I needed to see some of my thoughts spelled out to myself.