My hair stylist not even blinking when I showed a picture of a somewhat femme leaning androgynous haircut and I said "Like that. The feeling of that style is nice". I wouldn't be surprised if she suspects that I'm more femme inside than my outside presentation hints. She asked questions about lengths and about how much daily styling effort I was ok with, and she made an effort to show me how to style it like this or like that, with what kind of spray or gel, when blow-drying or not, ...