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Which countries are "Safe" for (trans) women?

Started by Tills, April 16, 2025, 11:41:41 PM

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Tills

I love these detailed reports and pieces of information. Thank you so much @Moonflower and @KathyLauren: you are helping to build an awareness resource for others. That is inspiring.

I'm at the airport to fly up to Scotland. Flying just because with 2 big bags and a carry-on it made life a heap easier than crossing London followed by a long train journey.

I'll keep you posted with how I find attitudes in Scotland. I would say though that there's no doubt that the UK has deteriorated as a place for trans people to live. Attitudes are so different from even a few years back. I was very shaken at the beginning of this week when I sat next to a mother and her daughter opposite on a train (limited seating) and they exchanged glances, rolled eyes, and began smirking to each other. I moved seats.

A few years ago I would have felt sufficiently protected to have said something, had I wanted to, but no more.

I found Ireland to be very trans friendly.

I hope my move to Scotland will not be a chimera. An illusion of sanctuary.

These other countries mentioned above by others may prove much safer prospects for some of you.

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Charlotte Kitty

I wonder if it's certain areas in the UK that are worse? Since presenting fully as a woman I've had no problems at all from people. No weird looks, comments or such. Yet when I was a gay man holding my partners hand, I got loads of hassle and kids filming me whilst laughing.

Would be nice if it didn't happen anywhere though. I think the political climate has everything to do with it.

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Quote from: Tills on Today at 10:47:56 AMI love these detailed reports and pieces of information. Thank you so much @Moonflower and @KathyLauren: you are helping to build an awareness resource for others. That is inspiring.

I'm at the airport to fly up to Scotland. Flying just because with 2 big bags and a carry-on it made life a heap easier than crossing London followed by a long train journey.

I'll keep you posted with how I find attitudes in Scotland. I would say though that there's no doubt that the UK has deteriorated as a place for trans people to live. Attitudes are so different from even a few years back. I was very shaken at the beginning of this week when I sat next to a mother and her daughter opposite on a train (limited seating) and they exchanged glances, rolled eyes, and began smirking to each other. I moved seats.

A few years ago I would have felt sufficiently protected to have said something, had I wanted to, but no more.

I found Ireland to be very trans friendly.

I hope my move to Scotland will not be a chimera. An illusion of sanctuary.

These other countries mentioned above by others may prove much safer prospects for some of you.

xx
Exciting times Tills! Have a safe flight. Does the train take you near or is it taxi from the airport? Bit of a trek from Glasgow with 2 big bags and carry on isn't it?

You'll have to let us know how the locals are. Have you met neighbours yet or is that all happening today?
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Dawn Kellie

Despite what the media may lead you to believe, Florida is very accepting. There is a wonderful LGBT+ area called the gayberhood.
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Quote from: Dawn Kellie on Today at 12:15:14 PMDespite what the media may lead you to believe, Florida is very accepting. There is a wonderful LGBT+ area called the gayberhood.

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