Emma, thank you for that vignette of your life.
As you know, just as with everyone else, you are under no obligation to explain or justify your choices. Your life is yours to live as you choose, and the peace and happiness that you and your dear wife have achieved and sustained is all that anyone should need to see to recognize its rightness for you.
And yet, you do choose to share your inner world with us, and it's just so lovely to witness. I genuinely adore that even though we all have so much in common, we also live lives that differ significantly, and we find our own unique ways to navigate and negotiate our world to manifest our best selves.
What a treat! Thank you!