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Pugs4life - New here: my husband just came out to me as transgender

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Dear Susan,

There is no need to apologize.  I know how busy you are behind the scenes keeping this site up and running smoothly.  We all appreciate everything that you do Susan. 

Thank you for confirming that I am understanding correctly how I found the real Cynthia.  I have been loving her all along but just recently found out her name, right?  I didn't have a name yet for the person I was loving? I thought I was loving the male all along but actually it was her that I was loving the whole time.  I understand that the transition is the outside catching up to the inside. 

Thank you for being so patient and understanding as I circle back on some questions.  I really appreciate that I can ask as many times as I need to.  I appreciate everyone still being there.

Cynthia and I have had a couple of different conversations recently.  It was good for me to hear what was on her mind and in her heart.  I  listened as she talked.  It did help to hear from her about what has been on her mind and in her heart. 

I really do want to give back.  I have received so much help and support.  I want to offer that same support to others that may be on this journey.  I was so thrilled when Moonflower came back to the site.  It was good connecting with her. 

I guess I have come a long way from the place I started in.  I am so grateful for all of the love and support I have received to get me where I am today. It is my hope to offer that same love and support to others.  I really like how you said it is a long chain of people who were helped turning around to help others.  Thank you that I am a link in that chain.  It  is truly an honor.  It is a honor being able to be part of this family.  Thank you Susan. 

One day at a time...I will keep doing what I am doing Susan.  Thank you for your encouragement. 

With love,
Amy 

KristaFairchild

Quote from: Pugs4life on Yesterday at 04:30:35 PMDear Susan,

There is no need to apologize.  I know how busy you are behind the scenes keeping this site up and running smoothly.  We all appreciate everything that you do Susan. 

Thank you for confirming that I am understanding correctly how I found the real Cynthia.  I have been loving her all along but just recently found out her name, right?  I didn't have a name yet for the person I was loving? I thought I was loving the male all along but actually it was her that I was loving the whole time.  I understand that the transition is the outside catching up to the inside. 

Thank you for being so patient and understanding as I circle back on some questions.  I really appreciate that I can ask as many times as I need to.  I appreciate everyone still being there.

Cynthia and I have had a couple of different conversations recently.  It was good for me to hear what was on her mind and in her heart.  I  listened as she talked.  It did help to hear from her about what has been on her mind and in her heart. 

I really do want to give back.  I have received so much help and support.  I want to offer that same support to others that may be on this journey.  I was so thrilled when Moonflower came back to the site.  It was good connecting with her. 

I guess I have come a long way from the place I started in.  I am so grateful for all of the love and support I have received to get me where I am today. It is my hope to offer that same love and support to others.  I really like how you said it is a long chain of people who were helped turning around to help others.  Thank you that I am a link in that chain.  It  is truly an honor.  It is a honor being able to be part of this family.  Thank you Susan. 

One day at a time...I will keep doing what I am doing Susan.  Thank you for your encouragement. 

With love,
Amy 
Your thoughts have been incredibly important to me, Amy! 

Petunia

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Quote from: Pugs4life on Yesterday at 04:30:35 PMI have been loving her all along but just recently found out her name, right?  I didn't have a name yet for the person I was loving? I thought I was loving the male all along but actually it was her that I was loving the whole time.  I understand that the transition is the outside catching up to the inside.
The very essence and beautiful in its simplicity (and complexity). 💕
Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.
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