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Started by ChrissyRyan, December 14, 2025, 10:00:41 AM

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ChrissyRyan

That was a nice and relaxing soak.
I have not made up my mind what I want to wear this evening.
I will give it some thought.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Dawn Kellie

Not knowing the weather there. I'd recommend comfy.
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.
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ChrissyRyan

This afternoon my Sweetie and I discussed our future.
She did say that after marriage she wants everyone to think she married a nice man.
Which means detransition may be in my future.

But, who knows what the future will bring.  Attitudes, beliefs, what anyone or her or I wants can change. 

In the meantime it is status quo.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Charlotte Kitty

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on Yesterday at 03:52:48 PMThis afternoon my Sweetie and I discussed our future.
She did say that she wants everyone to think she married a nice man.
Which means detransition may be in my future.

But, who knows what the future will bring.  Attitudes, beliefs, what anyone or her or I wants can change. 

In the meantime it is status quo.


Chrissy

This is really sad to hear. I hope that her views do change over time so you can be yourself. I keep seeing this familiar story, with my friends and community often making the sacrifice and compromise. I can't say that I would myself, but we are all different.

Sending you lots of love and care.

Charlotte 😻

Furry kitty
Lover of fashion and cute stuff!
Kawaii, Hello Kitty, Care bears 🐻
Agender/Demonkin.
Trying to find me!
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Dawn Kellie

I hope things work out the way that makes you happiest.
Hugs
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on Yesterday at 03:56:38 PMThis is really sad to hear. I hope that her views do change over time so you can be yourself. I keep seeing this familiar story, with my friends and community often making the sacrifice and compromise. I can't say that I would myself, but we are all different.

Sending you lots of love and care.

Charlotte 😻




I cannot dispute that I am a bioman but I am a transwoman also.

I enjoy living as a woman because I have always been one inside.




Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on Yesterday at 04:05:32 PMI hope things work out the way that makes you happiest.
Hugs

We will see.  Things right now are going good. 

I am wondering though about the future.  I have come a long way.  It has not been easy.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

I keep thinking about my Sweetie:

"What if I never met you, where would I be right now?"

"You touched my heart in places that I never even knew."

"Nobody loves me like you do."


Is no sacrifice too big for me to make because of this?


Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Dawn Kellie

You're the only one that can answer that question.
What you need to ask yourself what would make your life complete.
Is this just something she wants for a wedding and then back to your normal?
Bottom line you two need to talk
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on Yesterday at 07:16:55 PMYou're the only one that can answer that question.
What you need to ask yourself what would make your life complete.
Is this just something she wants for a wedding and then back to your normal?
Bottom line you two need to talk


Done that.  We will figure it out.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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