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ChrissyRyan

#260
April 25, 2026, 04:49:27 PM
That was a nice and relaxing soak.
I have not made up my mind what I want to wear this evening.
I will give it some thought.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Dawn Kellie

#261
April 25, 2026, 05:10:16 PM
Not knowing the weather there. I'd recommend comfy.
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ChrissyRyan

#262
April 26, 2026, 03:52:48 PM
This afternoon my Sweetie and I discussed our future.
She did say that after marriage she wants everyone to think she married a nice man.
Which means detransition may be in my future.

But, who knows what the future will bring.  Attitudes, beliefs, what anyone or her or I wants can change. 

In the meantime it is status quo.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Charlotte Kitty ✅

#263
April 26, 2026, 03:56:38 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on April 26, 2026, 03:52:48 PMThis afternoon my Sweetie and I discussed our future.
She did say that she wants everyone to think she married a nice man.
Which means detransition may be in my future.

But, who knows what the future will bring.  Attitudes, beliefs, what anyone or her or I wants can change. 

In the meantime it is status quo.


Chrissy

This is really sad to hear. I hope that her views do change over time so you can be yourself. I keep seeing this familiar story, with my friends and community often making the sacrifice and compromise. I can't say that I would myself, but we are all different.

Sending you lots of love and care.

Charlotte 😻

Dawn Kellie

#264
April 26, 2026, 04:05:32 PM
I hope things work out the way that makes you happiest.
Hugs
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ChrissyRyan

#265
April 26, 2026, 04:14:14 PM
Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 26, 2026, 03:56:38 PMThis is really sad to hear. I hope that her views do change over time so you can be yourself. I keep seeing this familiar story, with my friends and community often making the sacrifice and compromise. I can't say that I would myself, but we are all different.

Sending you lots of love and care.

Charlotte 😻




I cannot dispute that I am a bioman but I am a transwoman also.

I enjoy living as a woman because I have always been one inside.




Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

ChrissyRyan

#266
April 26, 2026, 04:21:45 PM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 26, 2026, 04:05:32 PMI hope things work out the way that makes you happiest.
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We will see.  Things right now are going good. 

I am wondering though about the future.  I have come a long way.  It has not been easy.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

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April 26, 2026, 06:26:14 PM Last Edit: April 27, 2026, 05:36:21 AM by ChrissyRyan
Is no sacrifice too big for me to make because of this?


Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Dawn Kellie

#268
April 26, 2026, 07:16:55 PM
You're the only one that can answer that question.
What you need to ask yourself what would make your life complete.
Is this just something she wants for a wedding and then back to your normal?
Bottom line you two need to talk
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ChrissyRyan

#269
April 26, 2026, 07:40:36 PM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 26, 2026, 07:16:55 PMYou're the only one that can answer that question.
What you need to ask yourself what would make your life complete.
Is this just something she wants for a wedding and then back to your normal?
Bottom line you two need to talk


Done that.  We will figure it out.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

#270
May 02, 2026, 05:29:15 PM
I am a little bored.

I walked six miles today.  I went to the hardware store.  I went to the gas station.
I read a lot of articles.  I even tried some bad jokes out.   Nothing seems interesting to watch.  I am not hungry.   My Sweetie has been busy.  I am all caught up with work.  My place is all clean.  All the clothes are washed, dried, folded, and hung up.  I have groceries. 
I reconciled my accounts for April.  I enjoyed a lavender bath.  Nothing needs to be done.

I am a little bored.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Dawn Kellie

#271
May 02, 2026, 05:33:48 PM
I rarely get to that point. There is always something to do when you have animals.

I'd recommend a book
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ChrissyRyan

#272
May 02, 2026, 05:40:08 PM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 02, 2026, 05:33:48 PMI rarely get to that point. There is always something to do when you have animals.

I'd recommend a book


I have read a lot already today.  I think I will put some music on and enjoy the Bose delivered sound. 

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

#273
May 04, 2026, 05:02:14 PM
Today was a give back to the community public service day.
Staffers that wished to participate got the added bonus of a half day off when it fits their work schedule.  Everyone not on vacation helped.

The guys did outside work and us ladies did inside non-construction work.
So I and other women scrubbed (and I actually wore red scrubs), dealt with ants, cockroaches, mouse poop, dirty dishes, filthy bathrooms and carpets and floors, and a disgusting kitchen.

Guys dealt with too high grass and weeds, trash, litter, dog poop, and other unpleasantries.  They also did some raking of leaves, gutter cleaning, caulking, and outside painting.

I am tired.  I showered but feel like I need an ultra sanitization treatment.

How can people live like that?  Ugh.  Their living situation is nicer, for the time being.


Chrissy

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

ChrissyRyan

#274
May 04, 2026, 06:36:00 PM
I am chilling out.

Laying on the couch.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Alana Ashleigh

#275
May 04, 2026, 06:45:57 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on May 04, 2026, 06:36:00 PMI am chilling out.

Laying on the couch.


Chrissy


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Petunia

#276
May 04, 2026, 06:58:07 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on May 04, 2026, 05:02:14 PMHow can people live like that?  Ugh.  Their living situation is nicer, for the time being.


Chrissy



That is a very nice thing you did there Chrissy although it probably would have been easier for the guys.

As far as how can people live like that, mental health issues, simple depression, poverty and lack of hope, despair about their lives, domestic abuse and unable to deal with life, health problems ....

Some things that seem simple to one person may not be to someone else

ChrissyRyan

#277
May 04, 2026, 08:16:33 PM
Quote from: Petunia on May 04, 2026, 06:58:07 PMThat is a very nice thing you did there Chrissy although it probably would have been easier for the guys.

As far as how can people live like that, mental health issues, simple depression, poverty and lack of hope, despair about their lives, domestic abuse and unable to deal with life, health problems ....

Some things that seem simple to one person may not be to someone else

Yes, you are likely so right.  So sad to see those conditions.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Charlotte Kitty ✅

#278
May 05, 2026, 12:11:06 PM
Quote from: Petunia on May 04, 2026, 06:58:07 PMThat is a very nice thing you did there Chrissy although it probably would have been easier for the guys.

As far as how can people live like that, mental health issues, simple depression, poverty and lack of hope, despair about their lives, domestic abuse and unable to deal with life, health problems ....

Some things that seem simple to one person may not be to someone else

This is very true. For a long time my kitchen was piled up, never clean, house never tidied or hoovered for months. Depression- it takes a hold and these things get out of hand. Then you get depressed and overwhelmed thinking about it. Its a self fulfilling prophecy. Even now my house hasn't been cleaned properly in months. Just about keep the kitchen clean.

I wouldn't wish this feeling on anyone, it can be living misery. Your house isnt a home. I can see how some people sink even further than I do.


Charlotte 😻

Petunia

#279
May 05, 2026, 03:53:04 PM
I feel for you Charlotte. I tend to let things pile up but then get disgusted and have to do something about it.

If I'm not depressed it's a lot easier to do, but if depressed, well.

Maybe get yourself a maids outfit. (I know you like costumes) dress up, pick a small space, set a 20 minute timer and go for it.

Once the time is up go have a shower and wash your clothes.

No wearing that outfit unless you are cleaning.

IDK if that works for you.

If you can get things cleaner then your mood lifts with it.
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