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Started by Charlotte Kitty, January 02, 2026, 12:57:20 PM

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Charlotte Kitty

Quote from: Finally Anna on Yesterday at 01:47:10 PMI assume your boss knows you are a trans woman? If yes and if you have a decent/good relation to your boss, then I would ask about it.
"Boss, I happened to see that Claude AI heading about cost of discrimination. Should I be worried?"

Maybe he was looking into it for totally different reasons than you think?

I transitioned whilst working there so they definitely know. Hoping its just his curiosity for HR purposes which he looks after. It would upset me badly to get this close to GRS and have to cancel because I lose my job.

Stottie Girl

I wouldn't worry Charlotte, he's probably just worried in case he accidently does or says the wrong thing and doesn't want to open himself up to a case of discrimination in the workplace.
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley

Sarah B

Hi Charlotte

I have a plan for you or you can call it homework:

The Plan
Do the following things:
  • Go and buy a dress you would wear if you went to the party.
  • Go to a hairdresser and get your hair styled.
  • Go to a professional makeup artist and have your makeup done.

Three and four could be combined in one stop.

Conclusion
Go to the party and you will feel like a million dollar women.  I personally guarantee it, oh and have a good fantastic time.

Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
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Be who you want to be.
Sarah's Story
Feb 1989 Living my life as Sarah.
Feb 1989 Legally changed my name.
Mar 1989 Started hormones.
May 1990 Three surgery letters.
Feb 1991 Surgery.

Charlotte Kitty

Im at work before the party, both are impossible. Who knows if it'll even happen.

Sarah B

Hi Charlotte

You said:

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on Today at 03:46:06 PMIm at work before the party, both are impossible. Who knows if it'll even happen.

My question for you is; "Do you have any leave up your sleeve", for example Annual leave or flexitime?  If so then go!😉

Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@Charlotte Kitty
Be who you want to be.
Sarah's Story
Feb 1989 Living my life as Sarah.
Feb 1989 Legally changed my name.
Mar 1989 Started hormones.
May 1990 Three surgery letters.
Feb 1991 Surgery.
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