Hi again Charlotte,
While I mention times I've gone out quite a bit femme, my wife has told me if I go out crossdressed it's all over. I'm not out to anyone of our friends except one.
While I say I go out cis, my go to jeans and womens jeggings and I generally get positive comments from women.
Although we were out last week shopping in Zara (we only went there because I bought some nice zara maroon jeggings last week and my wife wants some) and two young ladies seemed to be looking at me and laughing when we got in the lift.
I was wearing a hint of lipstick, tinted sunscreen amd women's long sleeve tee, which my wife says does nothing for me, plus my normal earrings, necklace and bracelet.
I really didn't care if they were laughing as I was confortable in my skin.
My wife tells me that women will recognise the jeggings for what they are, and I just shrugged.
When I was told not to go out crossdressed I pointed out that I have kind of being doing it for a while but I think my wife doesn't want me in skirts or dresses.