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ChrissyRyan

#920
Yesterday at 04:32:20 PM
Charolotte,


You look very nice!  May your transition go so ever smoothly.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Stottie Girl

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Yesterday at 05:01:02 PM
Most of us on here are carrying bagage of some sort Charlotte, there is no reason to be envious of anyone here. We are all on the same path and we all have our insecurities too, some of us are further down that road than others. I realise and I think you realise that the envy is not rational but I hope you can get on top of it.

I will admit to feeling a bit of jealousy at times when I see people further on in their transition or those who have completed their journey and are living their best life. But I have belief that one day I will get there too.

7 years old is mighty young for sexual thoughts, crikey, thats a lot to process at that age.

I can't begin to understand what your childhood abuse was like or how it will have affected you. I am so sorry you have had to endure that treatment.
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley

Dawn Kellie

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Yesterday at 05:20:51 PM
Quote from: Stottie Girl on Yesterday at 03:44:24 PMI'm sorry to hear that Kellie but unfortunately it is an all too common condition with trans people it seems. I guess it must stem from having to deny who you are for so long maybe? I do know that my depression and anxiety has been reduced to just occasional incidents, usually relating to neurodiversity triggers. This is a huge step forward from where I was two years ago. I was very broken back then. Have you been discussing these feelings with your therapist Kellie?

Yes i have. Therapy has been a great change
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.

Charlotte Kitty ✅

#923
Yesterday at 05:26:03 PM
Quote from: Stottie Girl on Yesterday at 05:01:02 PMMost of us on here are carrying bagage of some sort Charlotte, there is no reason to be envious of anyone here. We are all on the same path and we all have our insecurities too, some of us are further down that road than others. I realise and I think you realise that the envy is not rational but I hope you can get on top of it.

I will admit to feeling a bit of jealousy at times when I see people further on in their transition or those who have completed their journey and are living their best life. But I have belief that one day I will get there too.

7 years old is mighty young for sexual thoughts, crikey, thats a lot to process at that age.

I can't begin to understand what your childhood abuse was like or how it will have affected you. I am so sorry you have had to endure that treatment.

Thanks and our feelings and journeys are more similar than we imagine like you say. We all have our struggles and wish we could be our truest and best selves. Some are further forwards which is both a blessing and sometimes hard to see. I think personally i worry and catastrophise. Rather than like you thinking "I'll get there" I lament over the reasons i might not get there. Probably all the same feelings as most, i just let them overrun and control me. Honestly these kinds of envy have written me off all day or made my hurt myself. But i know totally its irrational, but like any illness needs time and treatment.

Charlotte 😻
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#924
Yesterday at 05:34:15 PM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on Yesterday at 05:20:51 PMYes i have. Therapy has been a great change

It's definitely good just talking stuff through with a therapist. Explaining it sometimes untangles the issue and helps set it right in your head. Nice to hear its working out.
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Agender/Genderqueer/Demonkin.

I feel like the intersection of dark and light. I have a dark soul residing in me but an intense draw to the powers of good. All around I feel the constant battle between darkness and light.

Petunia

#925
Yesterday at 08:31:25 PM
Hi Charlotte. Hope you're feeling good today.

I just want to thank you for all your greetings to the newbies and for the kind eay you treat people, esp me.

I love seeing all you're new photos and seeing the way you've changed.

You know you can't pass as a guy right?

Everything about you screams feminine lady.

I love the cut of your blouses and dresses. Like I said before perhaps some bolder colours but I really can't be sure.

What makeup do you use?  Your skin looks so soft and perfect. Such a beatiful pale complection that is unachievable where I live.

Oh, I know what you mean about the crowd when you went to the play. I recently went to a valentines day show where the crowd was predominately from the LBGTQI+ community and I really felt at home even though I was presenting cis male, or as cis as I can
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