Charlotte's scratch post

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

I so can't wait until Friday when we fly for my surgery. Literally this time next week I'll be out of hospital and in the hotel. Not sure how I'll feel one day after surgery...I imagine uncomfortable but ok.

My bf is stressing about if I don't make it through. I think his autism exacerbates these kinds of things. I've explained to him it's highly unlikely I'll die. Still I think he worries deep down as I'm his first relationship, he's really happy and he doesn't want to be alone again which I get.

I'm sure I'll be fine. Their medical system is probably more modern and better than in the UK to be honest.

Charlotte 😻

[Lori Dee ✅]

There are always risks to any surgery, but the surgical team knows how to manage them. Just tell your bf that you will be in expert hands and there is nothing to worry about. He still will, but that reassurance might be what he needs.

Remember that 90% of the things we worry about never happen.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Well that's it...all packed, all funds ready and passports in my carry on! Literally ready to go.

One more day at work tomorrow then will soon be flying to Istanbul! Looking forward to getting there and having a couple of days to explore and try the local food before I go for surgery.

The nurse has been in contact and I will be looked after by a team including my surgeon and his wife. She helps ensure I'll be looked after and am comfortable. Everyone has been so friendly, which echoes the reviews about them being extremely friendly and caring. That's very important to me. I can't wait to meet in person.

Hopefully I can soon share some pictures and experiences.

Charlotte 😻

[Devlyn ✅]

Good luck! Do you need an ETA to travel there?

Hugs, Devlyn

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Good luck! Do you need an ETA to travel there?

Hugs, Devlyn

Thank you. Fortunately visa exempt including medical for 90 days.

Charlotte 😻

[Pema]

I'll be thinking of you the entire time, Charlotte. It sounds like you're in excellent hands, so put your trust in the collective consciousness. Know that we are with you.

[Lori Dee ✅]

Good luck, Charlotte!

Have a safe trip and enjoy the pain meds.
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[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Thank you both 🙂 Not been this excited in a while.

C😻

[Alana Ashleigh]

Good luck, Charlotte.

Alana

[davina61]

Wishing you all the best and a swift recovery my dear. Yawl be bostin !!

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Thanks both for the kind wishes 🙂

I also have some positive news regarding my mental health. I had my screening call today for psychiatric support. They have referred me for a more in depth screening.

I'm not there yet but it's one step closer than last time. Also I can have this face to face. I find that much better as I open up more and they can see the pain in my expressions.

So when I return I will be pushing my heart and soul out to them. There is no doubt I need more specialist help. I will do everything to get it.

Charlotte 😻

[Rochelle]

Good luck and best wishes for your trip and surgery.

[Dances With Trees]

Sending big hugs and warm wishes! All shall be well, Charlotte.

[Pema]

I genuinely wish I could be there to cheer you on, but I know you'll handle it fine.

[Courtney G]

I'll be waiting here for you on the other side, sis. It's going to be great. We're so lucky to be able to get these life-changing procedures!

[Stottie Girl]

Best of British and safe journey Charlotte, sorry I'm late to wishing you well on your adventure.

When I was growing up FFS wasn't a thing, it is amazing what they can do for us now, so exciting.

I can't wait to see the new you!

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Thank you very much to all my beautiful friends for the kind words. I'm now chilling out ready to gt out very early tomorrow to fly. Thankfully the missile going through Turkey has not stopped flights going there, so everything is still on.

Honestly I can't believe in 2026 we're still doing this...fighting...firing missiles at each other. It's exhausting. Such a waste. I just feel sad for humanity sometimes. We could achieve so much,  yet achieve so little.

Wishing love to all and praying for some peace and healing in this world.

Charlotte 😻