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Dawn Kellie

#560
May 11, 2026, 08:30:10 PM
To those of you of a certain age and growing up in the US this will ring something to you. I got my first pair of Calvin Klein jeans. They feel amazing. I cant wait to wear them out
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ChrissyRyan

#561
May 11, 2026, 08:30:43 PM
Do you use white noise generating devices in your ear, or headphones/earbuds that reduce the background noise?
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

#562
May 11, 2026, 08:31:58 PM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 11, 2026, 08:30:10 PMTo those of you of a certain age and growing up in the US this will ring something to you. I got my first pair of Calvin Klein jeans. They feel amazing. I cant wait to wear them out

You want to wear them outside the home or do you want them to wear out? 

I think I know what you mean, the former.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Dawn Kellie

#563
May 11, 2026, 08:38:29 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on May 11, 2026, 08:30:43 PMDo you use white noise generating devices in your ear, or headphones/earbuds that reduce the background noise?

Some white noise a lot of music or anything to keep the whine covered. It never stops. I have to have the TV on at bed just so the noise is covered enough to get to sleep
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.
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Dawn Kellie

#564
May 11, 2026, 08:39:22 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on May 11, 2026, 08:31:58 PMYou want to wear them outside the home or do you want them to wear out? 

I think I know what you mean, the former.



Where them in public and wear them out so they have some rips. That looks.so cute
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.
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ChrissyRyan

#565
May 11, 2026, 08:43:59 PM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 11, 2026, 08:39:22 PMWhere them in public and wear them out so they have some rips. That looks.so cute

Sometimes the rips add a fashionable look.  I will wear short shorts at home but not in public.
One I made from an old pair of jeans. 
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Dawn Kellie

#566
May 11, 2026, 09:10:25 PM
I got in a little non trouble, trouble the other day. My wife and I were folding laundry and my wife held up a pair of my jeans. She asked if they were mine, they were women's jeans and I said yes. She said ok, then she asked me what size I was wearing. I told her and she got a little funny look on her face. She then told me we were wearing the same sized jeans. She also told me she didn't like that we were wearing then same sized clothes.
Like I said not trouble, trouble. I liked it. She has bigger breast but I have hopes
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It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.

Dawn Kellie

#567
May 14, 2026, 12:23:44 PM
My wife had her surgery. It wasn't as bad as though it was going to be.
They gave her some Ketamine. I've never seen her so stoned. She said se had a feeling of floating through a canyon that was made of colored blocks. Then I got her home and she slept 6 hours.
Her eye lids looks like she is wearing heavy 80's eye makeup after getting in a fight with Mike Tyson.
I'm trying to get a few minutes to talk to her but she's been on the phone with my daughter and her work. I'm trying
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.

Sephirah

#568
May 14, 2026, 01:24:43 PM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 11, 2026, 08:38:29 PMSome white noise a lot of music or anything to keep the whine covered. It never stops. I have to have the TV on at bed just so the noise is covered enough to get to sleep

I can kind of somewhat relate, Kellie. After years of sleeping on a submarine, with constant noise... I cannot sleep in silence. It's too loud. I tend to fall asleep to YouTube videos these days.

I can recommend this...

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Dawn Kellie

#569
May 14, 2026, 01:28:13 PM
Quote from: Sephirah on May 14, 2026, 01:24:43 PMI can kind of somewhat relate, Kellie. After years of sleeping on a submarine, with constant noise... I cannot sleep in silence. It's too loud. I tend to fall asleep to YouTube videos these days.

I can recommend this...

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That's what I'm talking about. The higher frequency noises tend to make things worse.
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Stottie Girl

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May 14, 2026, 04:34:24 PM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 14, 2026, 12:23:44 PMMy wife had her surgery. It wasn't as bad as though it was going to be.
They gave her some Ketamine. I've never seen her so stoned. She said se had a feeling of floating through a canyon that was made of colored blocks. Then I got her home and she slept 6 hours.
Her eye lids looks like she is wearing heavy 80's eye makeup after getting in a fight with Mike Tyson.
I'm trying to get a few minutes to talk to her but she's been on the phone with my daughter and her work. I'm trying
When you say "talk to her" are you meaning "THE talk"? If so I hope it goes well for you Kellie.
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Dawn Kellie

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May 14, 2026, 04:45:57 PM
Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 14, 2026, 04:34:24 PMWhen you say "talk to her" are you meaning "THE talk"? If so I hope it goes well for you Kellie.

Yes, the talk. It didn't happen today. Even though she was off she was on the phone until after 2 and then we had to run some errands.
I hope she can be off the phone tomorrow 😩
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Stottie Girl

#572
May 14, 2026, 04:52:20 PM
There's no rush Kellie, Wait until the timing is as right as possible.
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley
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Dawn Kellie

#573
May 14, 2026, 04:54:51 PM
Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 14, 2026, 04:52:20 PMThere's no rush Kellie, Wait until the timing is as right as possible.

I'm trying. I just hate having secrets  from her.
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Dawn Kellie

#574
May 16, 2026, 09:19:20 AM
Well I did not get a chance to have the talk with my wife. I had her in my truck fir 5 hours yesterday and she had work issues she was dealing with or my oldest daughter was talking to her. I think I might just have to make an appointment with her and get it out.
She still looks like she went round with a boxer. She had a work function i drove her to and she wore over sized sunglasses the entire time. By the end of the day she had bruising down her cheeks. She put ice packs on her eyes and it helped.
Another work day, but I took time off in such a way that I work today and am off for two days
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ChrissyRyan

#575
May 16, 2026, 09:23:19 AM
I hope you two will have good conversations soon about everything.
Time must be made for attentive discussions.


But this would apply to any two people, of course.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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#576
May 16, 2026, 09:30:09 AM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 16, 2026, 09:19:20 AMWell I did not get a chance to have the talk with my wife. I had her in my truck fir 5 hours yesterday and she had work issues she was dealing with or my oldest daughter was talking to her. I think I might just have to make an appointment with her and get it out.
She still looks like she went round with a boxer. She had a work function i drove her to and she wore over sized sunglasses the entire time. By the end of the day she had bruising down her cheeks. She put ice packs on her eyes and it helped.
Another work day, but I took time off in such a way that I work today and am off for two days

These conversations are so hard as only one thing needs to feel off at the time and the moment no longer feels right. If you need a push to do it then maybe book something that means you need to tackle this first. Like maybe an appointment with therapy to discuss the result of the conversation. Kinda like a social contract. Its tough though and often in this life there isn't a good time. Sometimes you got to get in first before any other drama.

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Lori Dee ✅

#577
May 16, 2026, 10:26:16 AM
I agree with Charlotte, and your idea of booking an appointment. It can be just a simple note that you want some personal time together to talk about something important. That way, she knows that you want her to be focused on the conversation and not distracted by work or outside issues. It is important that you have her full attention for this. If not, she could miss something important, or even misinterpret something you say due to her thinking about something else.

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Stottie Girl

#578
May 16, 2026, 11:36:40 AM
I really do wish you well Kellie but on this subject I don't think I can be of any help. I don't know anything about relationships. I wish I could be of some use. I'll just have to support you from the sidelines!
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley
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Dawn Kellie

#579
May 16, 2026, 11:38:11 AM
Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 16, 2026, 11:36:40 AMI really do wish you well Kellie but on this subject I don't think I can be of any help. I don't know anything about relationships. I wish I could be of some use. I'll just have to support you from the sidelines!

I appreciate that you care. I just have to get her when her phone isn't blowing up. The right time will arrive
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