The world according to Sarah

[Stottie Girl]

Well I'm back, they tried 5 times to get blood before they managed to extract it, I'm always a human pin cushion when I have to give blood. They've put me on blood thinners as a precaution pending the actual blood clot scan tomorrow. The doc brought in the consultant doc too and both say it doesn't look like a clot but it's worth checking out anyway so I'm referred to the hospital tomorrow lunchtime for the scan. I guess I will find out for sure then.

I do not talk about it on here as I don't condone it but I have been DIY HRT for many years. My docs do not know about this. I have finally had to come clean today as being on HRT can affect the test results. It is because I divulged I was on HRT that my risk factor increased meaning I have to have the test.

Up until this afternoon I had only told my mother I was trans. Now I have told two doctors and it is now officially on my records that I have been taking E off the books. I was planning to do this in the next 3 months when I can get an official appointment with a private gender speciallist but now my hand was forced a little bit. I will have to have "the talk" with my GP when I go for the results. I have to say the two docs were absolutely awesome about it. It's actually a big relief it's in the open now.

[Lori Dee ✅]

It is always good to be open and honest with your medical team.

As you said, it can skew the test results, and you don't want them to assume something that isn't happening. Likewise, when they are looking at possible treatment options, they will try to find something that works with what you are doing and not something that is contraindicated.

They have probably seen it all, so there is no reason not to tell them. Medical records are private, so no one else needs to know until you are ready.

Hopefully, the scan shows it was something simple like standing for too long and not anything more serious.

Thoughts and prayers are with you.

[tgirlamg]

Well I'm back, they tried 5 times to get blood before they managed to extract it, I'm always a human pin cushion when I have to give blood. They've put me on blood thinners as a precaution pending the actual blood clot scan tomorrow. The doc brought in the consultant doc too and both say it doesn't look like a clot but it's worth checking out anyway so I'm referred to the hospital tomorrow lunchtime for the scan. I guess I will find out for sure then.

I do not talk about it on here as I don't condone it but I have been DIY HRT for many years. My docs do not know about this. I have finally had to come clean today as being on HRT can affect the test results. It is because I divulged I was on HRT that my risk factor increased meaning I have to have the test.

Up until this afternoon I had only told my mother I was trans. Now I have told two doctors and it is now officially on my records that I have been taking E off the books. I was planning to do this in the next 3 months when I can get an official appointment with a private gender speciallist but now my hand was forced a little bit. I will have to have "the talk" with my GP when I go for the results. I have to say the two docs were absolutely awesome about it. It's actually a big relief it's in the open now.

Sarah!

Maybe sometimes it is easier when fate gives us a nudge!

Let that cat outta the bag girl!... kitties like to run around and be free! 💕😺💕

Hugs and Love!

A 💕

[Stottie Girl]

Sarah!

Maybe sometimes it is easier when fate gives us a nudge!

Let that cat outta the bag girl!... kitties like to run around and be free! 💕😺💕

Hugs and Love!

A 💕

It does make me wonder about fate, the pain seems to be fading away a bit now! If I wake up in the morning with normal legs I'll definitely think someone up there has put a word in for me ha ha!

[Stottie Girl]

Thanks Lori. I really didn't want to divulge it in that way but I'm also not stupid. I knew they needed to know so it is what it is. I hope my GP will be as cool.

They asked me if I wanted to be called miss or mrs or addressed by another name. I said no as I was so embarrassed I don't think there is much point until I actually make the change. It could lead to awkward situations when they call for Sarah and male me gets up in the waiting room ha ha It is nice to know it is an option. I'm kind of buzzing about it actually.

[davina61]

Thats twice you crashed my post!!!! The universe is giving you the opportunity to do what you have been putting off, this hot weather is not helping with fluid retension.

[Stottie Girl]

Thats twice you crashed my post!!!! The universe is giving you the opportunity to do what you have been putting off, this hot weather is not helping with fluid retension.

My mum keeps telling me I have a guardian angel called Claude who always seems to make sure I'm alright. I'll win £100 on the lottery then an unexpected bill comes in for exactly that amount. At the house, I discover that I can remove the wallpaper off the ceilings and the ceilings are mint saving me thousands by not needing a plasterer then immediately I discover I will need to spend money on a builder to sort the chimney out. This stuff happens all the time. I was starting to dither about telling my GP and now I get a blood clot scare that forces my hand ha ha Maybe my mum is right lol!

[Northern Star Girl ✅]

@Stottie Girl
Dear Sarah;
Please keep me and the rest of your avid readers and followers updated regarding your blood clot testing. 
Along with others I am keeping you in my prayers and positive thoughts.

The DYI HRT discussions which are now VERY carefully allowed here on the Forum were not allowed prior to the end of 2023 because of health risk possibilities and concerns for our members. 

I am so glad that you sought immediate medical care.
      💜
HUGS, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]
    Forum Administrator

Well I'm back, they tried 5 times to get blood before they managed to extract it, I'm always a human pin cushion when I have to give blood. They've put me on blood thinners as a precaution pending the actual blood clot scan tomorrow. The doc brought in the consultant doc too and both say it doesn't look like a clot but it's worth checking out anyway so I'm referred to the hospital tomorrow lunchtime for the scan. I guess I will find out for sure then.

I do not talk about it on here as I don't condone it but I have been DIY HRT for many years. My docs do not know about this. I have finally had to come clean today as being on HRT can affect the test results. It is because I divulged I was on HRT that my risk factor increased meaning I have to have the test.

Up until this afternoon I had only told my mother I was trans. Now I have told two doctors and it is now officially on my records that I have been taking E off the books. I was planning to do this in the next 3 months when I can get an official appointment with a private gender speciallist but now my hand was forced a little bit. I will have to have "the talk" with my GP when I go for the results. I have to say the two docs were absolutely awesome about it. It's actually a big relief it's in the open now.

[tammy753]

I am glad you are ok, my hand got forced too but mine was the RTO mandate at my office so I understand. It was the best thing that could have happened but ->-bleeped-<- them for doing it, LOL

Let us know how the tests come out.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

I hope it turns out to not be a clot. It could be edema...my ex got that in his legs a lot and never found to be clots. But definitely good they're looking into it.

Honestly I don't think doctors really care much about DIY HRT. Mine were totally disinterested and didn't even advise me to stop. So I doubt you'll have any issues.

Sending hugs 🩷

[Stottie Girl]

@Stottie Girl
Dear Sarah;
Please keep me and the rest of your avid readers and followers updated regarding your blood clot testing. 
Along with others I am keeping you in my prayers and positive thoughts.

The DYI HRT discussions which are now VERY carefully allowed here on the Forum were not allowed prior to the end of 2023 because of health risk possibilities and concerns for our members. 

I am so glad that you sought immediate medical care.
      💜
HUGS, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]
    Forum Administrator

Yes, I remember it was very much a taboo subject from back when I was just an observer. I don't like to discuss it as I do not think others should follow my example. It is NOT a wise idea, I already had a plan to get off it and onto properly supervised care. This has simply meant my schedule has been brought forward a little bit.

The situation in the UK is maybe a little different than in the US. Here it might be free but the waiting lists are 6-8 years long just to get an initial consultation! There is not a lot of information out there about the private route. I had to use google gemini to get a list of contacts so I could devise my plan. There will be a lot of women in the UK doing the same as me because of it.

Once I get onto the private and shared care agreements maybe I'll put a post on explaining what I did, I suppose it might be useful information for someone in my position.

Unless you think that wouldn't be wise Danielle? I know this was massively frowned upon back in the day.

[Northern Star Girl ✅]

@Stottie Girl
Dear Sarah:
Sharing your method of finding private care for your medical needs that can not wait in lieu of NHS and the long wait times would certainly be of interest to our members.
Danielle [Northern  Star Girl]
  Forum Administrator