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Stottie Girl

Quote from: tammy753 on September 02, 2026, 06:41:46 AMI have gained and lost more weight that I would like to admit. I am at the heaviest I have been in a long time. It sounds like you are making great progress. I don't think your legs looked swelled in that pick but its hard to tell.

Your house will be complete in now time. Your are moving so fast I am impressed!
Me too Tammy, I have been up to 24 stone then down to 13 stone, kept it off for 16 years then back up to 23 stone and back down to where I am right now. Target is 12 stone and UK14 dress size. I'm inbetween UK18 and UK20 right now though but the weight seems to be flying off right now. I think start of next year I will be getting up to my target. It will be a nice birthday present!

Yeah, my pins seem to be getting slender now. The calves are definitely a teeny bit chunkier than normal but the bulk of the swelling has gone down now.
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Quote from: Gina P on September 02, 2026, 06:55:01 AMCongratulations on the weight loss. No, small accomplishment. I just started replacing clothes that don't fit as well.
Thanks Gina, Yeah, it's an awesome feeling isn't it!
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Stottie Girl

So this is my surplus bra collection. I wonder if I'm a bra hoarder?! This little haul represents my quest to find the holy grail, a comfortable bra! (actually I found another 8 bras since I took this picture and have added them to the pile ha ha!) None of these are even close to fitting me now! I now have the grand sum of 1 bra that actually fits!

Do you think I need to talk to a therapist about this lol!



The quest goes on......
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Lori Dee

My collection was similar.

When they started growing, I listened to the old myth that you would end up one cup size smaller than your female relatives.

Both of my grandmothers were hugely busty. My mother and her sisters were also busty. My cousins, too. I thought I had hit the jackpot.

So I started buying slightly bigger sizes, thinking that as they got too small, I would donate them.

It turns out that genetics do not work that way. My great-grandfather and his wife were both tall and thin. My father's sisters, tall and thin. My daughter and I are tall and thin.

The boobs seem to have skipped a generation or two. <sigh>

So, I donated most of the oversized bras. I still have two dresser drawers full of one size larger, for hopes and dreams.

It's not hoarding, it's preparedness.


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Stottie Girl

@LoriDee I have the opposite problem. I too thought I would be one size smaller than my mum or my grandmothers which would put me roughly at a B cup or maybe C (UK obviously). Turns out my great grandmother had a huge bust and I think they have skipped my grandmother and my mother to land on me. I have exceeded my expections by miles but this has meant I have had to kept buying as i increased in size. I am glad to know this is a healthy quantity and not an obsession!

Where on earth do you donate them? We have charity clothes collection skips dotted all over but I don't know if charity shops sell bras or not.
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Northern Star Girl

@Stottie Girl
  Dear Sarah:
My Oh My:  That is an awfully a lot of various pretty bras... 
...You titled your photo "Surplus Bra Collection" 
Does that mean that you have just ONE other bra that is not considered surplus?

Regarding donating them, in the USA and Canada some Charity Shops will take in
and sell bras.

HUGS, Danielle


Quote from: Stottie Girl on September 02, 2026, 12:16:49 PMSo this is my surplus bra collection. I wonder if I'm a bra hoarder?! This little haul represents my quest to find the holy grail, a comfortable bra! (actually I found another 8 bras since I took this picture and have added them to the pile ha ha!) None of these are even close to fitting me now! I now have the grand sum of 1 bra that actually fits!

Do you think I need to talk to a therapist about this lol!



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I tried on a "B" cup bra this morning and it was comical. I wish Keystone was coming up sooner, because I donated a bunch of bras to the clothing swap this year and I definitely have a batch that I'll never be able to wear again.

And my boobs are giving off the same intermittent deep burn as they did when I had a bit of a growth spurt when I switched to injections early this year! Double D, anyone?

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Charlotte Kitty

Wow I've never seen so many bras before! That's quite the collection. I only got about 15 to 20 I'd guess!

Stottie Girl

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on September 02, 2026, 03:08:13 PM@Stottie Girl
  Dear Sarah:
My Oh My:  That is an awfully a lot of various pretty bras... 
...You titled your photo "Surplus Bra Collection" 
Does that mean that you have just ONE other bra that is not considered surplus?

Regarding donating them, in the USA and Canada some Charity Shops will take in
and sell bras.

HUGS, Danielle



Yep, I've realised my true bra size but have been dieting so everytime I get 2 or 3 bras I end up dropping a band! On further analysis I have realised the 1 bra that fits  (it arrived today) does not actually fit. The cups are at least 1 possibly 2 sizes too small so it's going back for an exchange for a bigger size. In the past I was too shy to return them so ended up with a large collection of mostly useless bras ha ha!

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on September 02, 2026, 04:16:50 PMWow I've never seen so many bras before! That's quite the collection. I only got about 15 to 20 I'd guess!
There will be quite a few in your size Charlotte. PM me if you want them and I'll post them to you.

Quote from: Courtney G on September 02, 2026, 03:42:59 PMI tried on a "B" cup bra this morning and it was comical. I wish Keystone was coming up sooner, because I donated a bunch of bras to the clothing swap this year and I definitely have a batch that I'll never be able to wear again.

And my boobs are giving off the same intermittent deep burn as they did when I had a bit of a growth spurt when I switched to injections early this year! Double D, anyone?

For me it's comical when I try on DD's now, I spill out all over the place, not a good look! Of course I'm on a 40 band which isn't great. You aren't hiding yours on a small frame Courtney! When I get down to your size though these things are going to be a little bit noticable!
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Charlotte Kitty

Damn the only bra that doesn't fit me now is an A cup one and even that I can get away with!

I'll DM you - thank you. Maybe there something you got that can helpb a bit!

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Stottie Girl

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on September 02, 2026, 05:03:16 PMDamn the only bra that doesn't fit me now is an A cup one and even that I can get away with!

I'll DM you - thank you. Maybe there something you got that can helpb a bit!

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38C aren't you? I'll have a sort through and see what I've got. It might not be for a couple of days though because, well stealth and all that!
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big kim

Got 3 sports bras from Peacocks, £7 each. 42D. One still unused. During lockdown I never wore one for months.
Couldn't wait to wear one when first starting hrt now first thing I do on getting home is take it off!
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Quote from: Lori Dee on September 02, 2026, 06:26:04 PMSusan's Place: Transgender Resources
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Stottie Girl

Quote from: big kim on Yesterday at 12:30:43 AMGot 3 sports bras from Peacocks, £7 each. 42D. One still unused. During lockdown I never wore one for months.
Couldn't wait to wear one when first starting hrt now first thing I do on getting home is take it off!
I'm the opposite way, I spend most of my day braless as it's easier to hide them and I like nothing better than putting one on!
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Quote from: Stottie Girl on September 02, 2026, 05:05:48 PM38C aren't you? I'll have a sort through and see what I've got. It might not be for a couple of days though because, well stealth and all that!

Awwww thankies. Well I measure C but only fill a B but I wear D too with boosters in. But who knows! Mostly try and some work some dont lol. Seems like a dark art and very much experimental!
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Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on Yesterday at 01:15:08 AMAwwww thankies. Well I measure C but only fill a B but I wear D too with boosters in. But who knows! Mostly try and some work some dont lol. Seems like a dark art and very much experimental!
So would you want the 38D's too?

It is a steep learning curve Charlotte. This is what I have learned so far for what it is worth:-

To see if the band is right, put the bra on reversed and upside down (cups pointing down to your butt). If the band is snug not tight the band size is good.

If you then put it on and the band is tight or rolls down at the sides then your cup is too small.

When you put it on lean forward and scoop and swoosh all the breast material from your armpit to the front to check how you fill a cup.

If the central gore (the bit where the wires touch your sternum) is not flush against your chest wall, your cup is too small.

If you have a quad boob effect when viewed in profile ie the top of the cups create an indentation in your tissue then the cup is too small.

The wires should go around to your sides encompassing all the breast material, if they press into the side of your tissue or sit on that material, the cup is too small.

If the wires are moving down out of the imframamary fold and down your chest it is likely your cups are pushing the bra away because the cups are too small or the band is too loose.

You know if the band is too loose as you can get more than a couple of fingers behind at the back and the back tends to ride up your back.

If the bra cup gaps at all then the cup is too large or the cup depth is too deep (common with balcony bras). But make sure to check both breasts as it is very common to have one boob bigger than the other and you should always size for the larger cup.

If you do have one larger than the other you can pop a "chicken fillet" enhancer or a foam insert at the bottom outer side in the smaller cup to even thing out.

Simples lol!

PS I'm sure there is loads more than that to learn but that's what I have learnt so far. Plus I haven't even covered shape and style there! That is another subject.
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Alana Ashleigh

Quote from: Stottie Girl on September 02, 2026, 12:16:49 PMSo this is my surplus bra collection. I wonder if I'm a bra hoarder?! This little haul represents my quest to find the holy grail, a comfortable bra! (actually I found another 8 bras since I took this picture and have added them to the pile ha ha!) None of these are even close to fitting me now! I now have the grand sum of 1 bra that actually fits!

Do you think I need to talk to a therapist about this lol!



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That is one impressive bra collection!
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