Krista, It's hard to unlearn a liftime of imprinted prejudices that came from our generation
I tend to look at my best friends who are a lesbian couple. One tends to take on the "traditional masculine" jobs with relish. See's physical work as a challenge and accomplishment.
She's the fierce girl type who will tackle any job providing she is safe.
If it's good enough for her it's good enough for me. Do things you want to do or things you are good at.
Most tasks have no gender