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Valerie.Val

Yes, you're all right. Shame that one of us plays gatekeeper on a help line. I know what I need. 😊

@Stottie Girl so funny you said they were muppets, we also compared their behaviours to Waldorf & Statler 😂
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Stottie Girl

Quote from: Valerie.Val on June 14, 2026, 06:34:51 AMYes, you're all right. Shame that one of us plays gatekeeper on a help line. I know what I need. 😊

@Stottie Girl so funny you said they were muppets, we also compared their behaviours to Waldorf & Statler 😂
Ha ha! called it!🤣🤣
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Petunia

This site is an example of how wonderful the internet can be.

No judgement. Just support, understanding, guidance, lived experience and a host of wonderful people.

I should have come here decades ago.

When it comes to the haters talking about regret or detransition why don't they also acknowledge those of us who don't make it and are pressured to self harm?

Valerie.Val

@Petunia I wholeheartedly agree - faith in humanity restored, as they say.

Valerie.Val

Right, I shaved my beard off and my spouse put make-up on my face. Tears of joy. I'm on the right track.

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Quote from: Valerie.Val on Yesterday at 01:32:15 PMRight, I shaved my beard off and my spouse put make-up on my face. Tears of joy. I'm on the right track.

The tip of the iceberg of joy! 🤗

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Stottie Girl

Quote from: Valerie.Val on Yesterday at 01:32:15 PMRight, I shaved my beard off and my spouse put make-up on my face. Tears of joy. I'm on the right track.
Oh wow! your wife really is awesome Val! You are a very lucky girl!
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley

Courtney G

Quote from: Valerie.Val on Yesterday at 01:32:15 PMRight, I shaved my beard off and my spouse put make-up on my face. Tears of joy. I'm on the right track.

Wow, congratulations! So great that your spouse was able to assume that supporting role.

I'm up to my neck in electrolysis study and I must let you know: be very cautious about plucking, waxing or epilating any face or body hairs, as that can make the roots thicker and stronger and harder to remove later. It can even turn vellus (fine, soft) hairs into terminal ones! If you want to learn a bit more, check out Paradoxical Hypertrichosis.

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KristaFairchild

Quote from: Valerie.Val on Yesterday at 01:32:15 PMRight, I shaved my beard off and my spouse put make-up on my face. Tears of joy. I'm on the right track.
I'll never forget the first time I was fully made up and dressed as a woman. I nearly cried with joy.

Years later, I've accepted who I am. I leave room for whatever the future brings, but my path hasn't wavered for two years. 

Devlyn

Quote from: Courtney G on Yesterday at 05:03:26 PMWow, congratulations! So great that your spouse was able to assume that supporting role.

I'm up to my neck in electrolysis study and I must let you know: be very cautious about plucking, waxing or epilating any face or body hairs, as that can make the roots thicker and stronger and harder to remove later. It can even turn vellus (fine, soft) hairs into terminal ones! If you want to learn a bit more, check out Paradoxical Hypertrichosis.

Do you have a source for that?
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KristaFairchild

Quote from: Devlyn on Today at 01:56:35 AMDo you have a source 
Paradoxical Hypertrichosis, is real. However, it is most strongly associated with certain forms of laser hair removal and intense pulsed light (IPL), not with ordinary plucking, waxing, or epilating.

Devlyn

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Quote from: KristaFairchild on Today at 07:13:47 AMParadoxical Hypertrichosis, is real. However, it is most strongly associated with certain forms of laser hair removal and intense pulsed light (IPL), not with ordinary plucking, waxing, or epilating.

Yes, that's what I found as well. I understand that everyone gets a different search return, and I was wondering why none of the other hair removal methods were listed as potential causes; and why the post here didn't list the IPL and laser at all. Hopefully Courtney can help us out with the answers.
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Quote from: Devlyn on Today at 01:56:35 AMDo you have a source for that?

Well, I thought I did, but I can't find it in my class notes! The only thing I found so far is that roots can be deformed from plucking and that laser and IPL can cause regrowth and/or conversion of vellus hairs to terminal ones.

But a Google search reveals this: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/04/150409133407.htm#google_vignette 🔗

And this: https://www.->-bleeped-<-.com/r/electrolysis/comments/1okap5w/does_waxingplucking_stimulate_terminal_hair_growth/

And more stuff. But the ->-bleeped-<- thread is just people talking.
Wow...I can't use a red-something website url. Fascinating.

But I'm officially retracting my statement (unless I learn otherwise from multiple reputable sources or if I figure out which reputable source I'd learned that from)

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Lori Dee

I was told by my electrologist that plucking/waxing can damage the root, which in turn can cause ingrown hairs. She has a chart on the wall that shows hair follicles growing straight out, sideways, and even curled back into the skin (ingrown).
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Devlyn

Quote from: Courtney G on Today at 11:10:17 AMWell, I thought I did, but I can't find it in my class notes! The only thing I found so far is that roots can be deformed from plucking and that laser and IPL can cause regrowth and/or conversion of vellus hairs to terminal ones.

But a Google search reveals this: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/04/150409133407.htm#google_vignette 🔗

And this: https://www.->-bleeped-<-.com/r/electrolysis/comments/1okap5w/does_waxingplucking_stimulate_terminal_hair_growth/

And more stuff. But the ->-bleeped-<- thread is just people talking.
Wow...I can't use a red-something website url. Fascinating.

But I'm officially retracting my statement (unless I learn otherwise from multiple reputable sources or if I figure out which reputable source I'd learned that from)

Thank you for the update. 🙂

Courtney G

Quote from: Lori Dee on Today at 11:31:37 AMI was told by my electrologist that plucking/waxing can damage the root, which in turn can cause ingrown hairs. She has a chart on the wall that shows hair follicles growing straight out, sideways, and even curled back into the skin (ingrown).

Ingrown hairs are definitely a concern. I've read plenty about that. Deformed roots are a thing that is a concern for electrologists, as the root bulb could be harder to get to.

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