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Captain.Val

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August 12, 2026, 03:20:25 AM
I am sorry this happened. Lori Dee put it into words perfectly.
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Finally Anna

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August 12, 2026, 04:20:27 AM
Things are ok now. Similar issue has happened before but as this is 100% on me I will try to work my mind so that it doesn't happen again.
I'm quite sure that my identity journey makes me much more soft and sensitive than I already was. It also makes wifey's reaction be more pronounced because of my overall increased softness and then that "outburst" (words, not shouting)...
💕
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.
Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.
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Captain.Val

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August 12, 2026, 06:46:18 AM
It's an emotional rollercoaster for sure. I'm glad you worked things out <3
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Finally Anna

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August 12, 2026, 12:29:09 PM Last Edit: August 12, 2026, 02:36:40 PM by Finally Anna
The femme stretchy slim trousers now premiered. Together with a male-ish shirt and femme sneakers.
Actually a bit of a meh experience. The trousers are nice, comfy and all that - but still just trousers. I would guess that if paired with a more femme shirt I'd get a different feeling.

Edit: It could be, that a meh experience is my thing. I don't like to stand out. I am quite ok with being half invisible. 💕
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.
Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.
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Finally Anna

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August 12, 2026, 12:48:30 PM
And now, La pièce de résistance: Solar eclipse
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.
Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.
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Maid Marion

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August 12, 2026, 01:05:15 PM
I just went out an saw the partial eclipse with my aluminized mylar viewer!
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Finally Anna

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Yesterday at 04:44:06 PM Last Edit: Yesterday at 05:46:18 PM by Finally Anna
Had an evening with a couple of friends and a few friends of those friends. A friend of friends (a man, of course) got into a bit of bragging mode, ref money. I can't really stand such crap and soon went into another room with the only other woman present 'cept my wife and we quickly agreed on the men's conversation being less than "spiritual" and dearly lacking flexibility.

As a side note: She complimented my longer hairstyle and also said that she really liked my blue (royal blue, screaming blue) trousers that I wore at our big garden party back in June. "I liked them a lot! I liked that you went a bit outside the norm!". Yay! Yay! Those were purely femme trousers and I like them. Her comment made me feel affirmed but I could of course not tell her my real story. I tried to explain that my hair and those trousers are actually the real me, being let loose after my retirement.
Well, whatever...
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.
Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.

Maid Marion

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Yesterday at 04:54:56 PM
My mom gave me the light blue jeans she wore as a teenager as I could wear them.
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Finally Anna

#248
Today at 02:42:51 AM
I'm much more aware of my looks and my clothing now. I was quite aware also before but now I don't leave the house without checking my hair and fixing it as needed and making sure I have ok clothes.

I also think I will get that laser of my beard. I don't like it at all when I see the shadow or when there's slight stubble, even though it's sparse and a white/dark mix.

All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.
Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.

KristaFairchild

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Today at 10:31:34 AM
Quote from: Finally Anna on Today at 02:42:51 AMI also think I will get that laser of my beard. I don't like it at all when I see the shadow or when there's slight stubble, even though it's sparse and a white/dark mix.


Mine hides pretty well, but when I want my smoothest look I use a pink color corrector under my foundation. There are many videos about this. 
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Finally Anna

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Today at 03:22:58 PM
Seems that recommendation for laser is when skin is not tanned. Which translates to November. Oh, well, ...
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.
Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.
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ChrissyRyan

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Today at 03:29:52 PM
Quote from: Finally Anna on Today at 03:22:58 PMSeems that recommendation for laser is when skin is not tanned. Which translates to November. Oh, well, ...


Sometimes waiting for a good thing is a good thing in itself.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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