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Started by Petunia, July 22, 2026, 11:17:25 PM

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Petunia

Ashley, that is certainly what i'm feeling. Depressed when I look in the mirror then thinking about those AI photos.

I feel like giving up.

It doesn't help that it seems like I'm being deliberately male gendered, mostly by men.

"Can I help you sir?"

Ok, I'm not passable, but probably androgenously dressed but why not "can I help you?"

I don't seem to have that issue with women even when buying women's clothes, makeup, nails etc

Maybe I'm overly sensitive at the moment
And then one day you stop to find,
10 years have got behind you,
no one told you when to run,
you missed the starting gun
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Quote from: Petunia on Yesterday at 04:23:51 PMAshley, that is certainly what i'm feeling. Depressed when I look in the mirror then thinking about those AI photos.

I feel like giving up.

It doesn't help that it seems like I'm being deliberately male gendered, mostly by men.

"Can I help you sir?"

Ok, I'm not passable, but probably androgenously dressed but why not "can I help you?"

I don't seem to have that issue with women even when buying women's clothes, makeup, nails etc

Maybe I'm overly sensitive at the moment

Petunia!

I am sorry you are feeling the weight of all this... Simply being yourself can feel like the most difficult of things sometimes... I will tell you that I, and everyone here, who has built their new life has felt and gone through what your feeling... I can also say in hindsight they would regret throwing in the towel... 🌼

The things you seek are within your grasp but, patience is your friend... hold the good days close... like when you were at the concert... you got a glimpse... keep at this and those wins start to add up... if you begin HRT, patience is REALLY your best friend but all the little changes and improvements we make have a cumulative affect!... 🌸

Sometimes this is all like learning to snowboard or skateboard... the first few times you fall a lot... get bruised, scraped and sprained and limp away... the trick is coming back the next day and the next... keep coming back girl... keep finding and expressing who you are and soon the world will see it too! 🤗

Onward Brave Sister!

A💕

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻

Devlyn

I would just gently say that handing a surgeon a picture and saying "I want to look like this" is probably the stuff of night sweats for them. That isn't how it works in their business. They're working with skin, tissue and bone, specifically the skin, tissue, and bone that you bring into their office.

AI is working with pixels and what it knows will give you a dopamine hit. It doesn't care or take into account the physical practicalities of what a surgeon can move or change.

Hugs, Devlyn

Petunia

Yeah, I get that Devlyn.

I will say please give me a straight nose that I can breathe through and not snore through it at night. Repair that smashed septum and fix the broken ball of cartilage at the tip. Make it a feminine as possible.

Please fix my hooded eyelids and the area below my eyes.

Here is a picture AI converted of me. I can see me underneath, I don't think this is possible but what else do I need to get me as close as possible

I know you're a surgeon not a magician. 
And then one day you stop to find,
10 years have got behind you,
no one told you when to run,
you missed the starting gun

Devlyn

My wife did a consultation at Facial Team. They took pictures of her from various angles and then sat down with her and asked what specifically bothered her.

Petunia

My wife has had eyelid lifts mainly because her eyelids have hindered her vision but also to look better.

Her surgeon told her to fix it properly she needs to go and lift from her scalp

I'm pretty sure she will do that soon.

I know she wants other things done, so she can go for it.

Male or female, I can't live without fixing my face. It's been busted since I was 11.

If they are going to touch me, I want it as girl as possible.

At least I'll be a better looking thing

 
And then one day you stop to find,
10 years have got behind you,
no one told you when to run,
you missed the starting gun
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Petunia

My wife has had eyelid lifts mainly because her eyelids have hindered her vision but also to look better.

Her surgeon told her to fix it properly she needs to go and lift from her scalp

I'm pretty sure she will do that soon.

I know she wants other things done, so she can go for it.

Male or female, I can't live without fixing my face. It's been busted since I was 11.

If they are going to touch me, I want it as girl as possible.

At least I'll be a better looking thing

PS, if you look closely at my nostrils you can see how they look "fixed".
Busted, I really only have one open nostril


 
And then one day you stop to find,
10 years have got behind you,
no one told you when to run,
you missed the starting gun
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