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Jillian-TG

I've mentioned before on this discussion board that I am married and because my wife isn't too comfortable with my transgender identity, I continue to live in the closet while we navigate through things. One thing I've done the past couple years is to spend brief periods of time as a woman when we go on a cruise. It's a great escape for me and awesome when my wife joins me for a drink or a coffee in the evening. Downside is that it's very brief.

A few months ago I was able to take a solo cruise where I was able to spend 3 days as a woman. I enjoyed it except I hated being alone and isolated.

Next month my wife and I are finally doing our girls trip together. We've flip flopped for 2 years to do this. But we are doing it. One week cruise out of LA on August 21st.

It will be the first time that we spend an extended period of time with me as a woman. I'm excited, nervous and scared all rolled into one.
AMAB and married to AFAB.
I am gender fluid but live primarily in male mode. My wife knows about my gender identity struggles and we are navigating how to come out and be more public about me being trans.

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@Jillian-TG 
Dear Jillian:
Your excitement comes through on
your posting regarding your upcoming
trip and cruise with your wife.

I am wishing for you a happy and enjoyable time.

Please keep us all updated as you can.

HUGS, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]
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Good for you, Jillian!

Have a great time, and be sure to let your wife know how much it means to you that she's with you like that. If all goes well, you can start planning the next cruise together.
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Finally Anna

Exciting, nervous and scary - but what an opportunity!
A whole week of girls' cruise sounds super nice.
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.

Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.
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Quote from: Jillian-TG on Yesterday at 10:12:09 PMIt will be the first time that we spend an extended period of time with me as a woman. I'm excited, nervous and scared all rolled into one.
Sounds that you are going to have a great time and create long lasting, wonderful memories as @Jillian-TG.

Enjoy the cruise!
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Stottie Girl

That sounds awesome Jillian! I hope this extended period will give your wife time to adjust and is just the start of many such adventures!
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