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Started by Edelia, August 31, 2026, 04:12:00 AM

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Edelia

Hi everyone,

My name is Edelia and I'm a trans woman just beginning my social transition. I just joined, on a recommendation.

I won't share too many details about myself for now, but I wanted to say hello and mention that this space seems reassuring: seeing people with such different paths, not only those who started younger.

Take care, everyone.

Finally Anna

¡Hola, Edelia!
¡Bienvenida!

I also hatched late and I find Susan's a very welcoming place.
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.

Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.

Maid Marion

Hi Edelia!

Welcome.

I like to socialize on the golf course.

I just started going to the beach where I can wear my more revealing outfits in an appropriate setting.

Marion

tammy753

You won't be alone here there are a lot of people starting late in life. I am in my 50's. Welcome!

Stottie Girl

Hola Edelia!

Very nice to meet you. I'm Sarah, from the UK.  We have members from all over Europe as well as the states and further afield. I'm sure you will find us all a welcoming bunch. Feel free to join in the discussions, all are welcome.

Sarah xx
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Edelia

Quote from: Finally Anna on August 31, 2026, 05:29:24 AM¡Hola, Edelia!
¡Bienvenida!

I also hatched late and I find Susan's a very welcoming place.


Thank you, that really helps. It's nice to know I'm not the only one who started this journey at this stage of life, most spaces I've seen feel geared toward younger people.

Finally Anna

Quote from: Edelia on August 31, 2026, 07:15:43 AMThank you, that really helps. It's nice to know I'm not the only one who started this journey at this stage of life, most spaces I've seen feel geared toward younger people.
I'm over 60 and came out to myself and my wife earlier this year. Age is just a number, it is behaviour and perception that matters.
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.

Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.

Stottie Girl

We are definitely an older crowd on here I would say, I'm 50 but there are girls on here from all ages, most of us have been around the block a bit!
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley

Edelia

Quote from: Maid Marion on August 31, 2026, 05:34:48 AMHi Edelia!

Welcome.

I like to socialize on the golf course.

I just started going to the beach where I can wear my more revealing outfits in an appropriate setting.

Marion

Hey Marion!

Thanks for the welcome.

I'm with you on the beach — but honestly, give me a quiet, empty stretch of sand any day. No audience needed.

Edelia

Quote from: tammy753 on August 31, 2026, 06:41:14 AMYou won't be alone here there are a lot of people starting late in life. I am in my 50's. Welcome!

Thanks! That's actually really reassuring.

And hey, 50s is the new 30s, right? 😉
Glad to be here.

Edelia

Quote from: Stottie Girl on August 31, 2026, 07:07:38 AMHola Edelia!

Very nice to meet you. I'm Sarah, from the UK.  We have members from all over Europe as well as the states and further afield. I'm sure you will find us all a welcoming bunch. Feel free to join in the discussions, all are welcome.

Sarah xx

Hey Sarah, lovely to meet you too! 😊
Thanks for the warm welcome, sounds like a great mix of people here. I'll definitely jump in when I've got something to say, or just to say hi.

See you around!
Edelia

Edelia

Quote from: Finally Anna on August 31, 2026, 07:18:03 AMI'm over 60 and came out to myself and my wife earlier this year. Age is just a number, it is behaviour and perception that matters.

That takes real courage, at any age, but especially after so many years together.

I came out to my ex-wife 15 years ago, so I know a bit about how that feels. It's not easy, but you're right: age really is just a number. What matters is living authentically, however and whenever you can.

Proud of you for taking that step. Better late than never, and honestly, "late" is just a social construct 😉

Christina152

Welcome Edelia,

I finally worked out who I was and came out to myself at 78. I'm not out to anyone else, I'm far too old to rock the boat now.

But better late than never.



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Edelia

Quote from: Christina152 on August 31, 2026, 08:27:44 AMWelcome Edelia,

I finally worked out who I was and came out to myself at 78. I'm not out to anyone else, I'm far too old to rock the boat now.

But better late than never.






I get it. I'm 55 and I'm still making mistakes, putting my future on the line. Can't stop.

But what you did at 78? That's huge. You don't have to tell anyone. Just knowing yourself is enough.

Big hug.

Edelia

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Quote from: Lori Dee on August 31, 2026, 09:08:10 AMHello Edelia,

I'm Lori Dee. Welcome to Susan's Place!

Thank you for that wonderful introduction.

Here is the Quick-Tour and Official Welcome Packet. We are happy to have you here and look forward to seeing you around the forums.

When you click on the HOME button, you will see a page listing all of the various sub-forums by category and topic. Each sub-forum has a description of what that forum is about, as well as any guidelines for posting.

Please keep in mind when posting that this is an ALL-AGES  PUBLIC  Forum and the internet never forgets. Do not post anything that you do not want to be made public.

I will add links below that are important for new and returning members.
Pay special attention to the links in RED.

If you have any questions about the Susan's Place site and the Forums, please feel free to contact me at LoriDee605@outlook.com.

Once again, welcome to Susan's Place!

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Thank you so much, Lori Dee! 😊
I really appreciate the welcome and all the helpful info. I'll be sure to read through the packet and check out the sub-forums. And don't worry l, I'll keep things public-friendly.

Looking forward to being part of this community!

Thanks again,
Edelia

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Welcome Aboard Edelia!

You have landed in a wonderful spot! Lots of "Never Too Late" starters with supportive hearts and vast experience to draw upon!... I started in 2013 at age 52... Life has been amazingly good ever since! Kudos on finding your strength to move forward toward a life that will finally serve the needs of the soul within!... May your path forward be blessed!🌻

Onward Brave Sister!

Ashley 💕
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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Edelia

Quote from: tgirlamg on August 31, 2026, 09:53:03 AMWelcome Aboard Edelia!

You have landed in a wonderful spot! Lots of "Never Too Late" starters with supportive hearts and vast experience to draw upon!... I started in 2013 at age 52... Life has been amazingly good ever since! Kudos on finding your strength to move forward toward a life that will finally serve the needs of the soul within!... May your path forward be blessed!🌻

Onward Brave Sister!

Ashley 💕

I really appreciate that, Ashley. 🥹
Hearing how much your life changed for the better gives me strength. I'm just starting and it's scary, but messages like yours help a lot.

"Onward"  I love that.

Big hug and blessings to you too! 🌻

Edelia