The fact that some 'real guy' publication has to print a 'guide' is only a sign of how far this whole deal has come. The last one is perfect. Lighten up. After all, they are guys, most of them wouldn't care as long as their friends never found out or unless they were somehow 'fooled' into giving reciprocation.
In SF not even the ->-bleeped-<-s can spot the ->-bleeped-<-s. So it goes.