Hey everyone! Just wanted to come out of the shadows and introduce myself. I figure I have been lurking long enough! I'm Jenga, and I guess the label that fits me best is androgyne. I was terribly macho as a result of my upbringing, but I finally got over it!

I am now at a point in my life where it's fun to play on the gender line. I like to dress fem, and sometimes I will dress andro, but mostly I try to stay in the middle with a little of both genders. I get ma'amed on the phone and at drive-thrus alot, and EVERYONE tends to call me sweetie, and dear, and honey. I love that! For me, I like being in a playful mode where I can challenge gender norms without seeming to be in your face or trying to hard. This gender stuff is fun!!!