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What sex are you in your dreams?

Started by Mina_Frostfall, November 30, 2008, 11:17:01 AM

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Jemma

Most of my dreams have been kind of genderless. Never wondered if I were male or female, I was just me.Though there have been a couple of dreams were I find myself making out with someone, and thats when I realize within the dream, that I have a biogirls body.
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aubrey

I used to constantly have dreams where I would look in the mirror and was in drag but knew that underneath was a male body and would be really sad about it, or dreams of being discovered or found out. Otherwise I was genderless. Lately I've started to have a few dreams where I'm female, and it was exhilerating. I don't remember most dreams anyways, maybe once or twice a month and it's 5 seconds worth.
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sarahb

In the beginning my dreams were pretty much all male, with a few sprinkles of female every few years or so. On the occasion that it would be a female, it would always be 100% female, as I didn't know back then that there was a possibility of transitioning or about TS or anything.

Once I started transitioning, my dreams slowly started becoming the same. However, I have also noticed that I haven't really had a dream of me as 100% male in a long time. It's either of me knowing I'm TS and somewhere within the transition stage (always full-time though, but various levels of FFS/SRS), or I'm 100% female. I expect that since they've followed the same path as my life has, that once I am past the transition phase of my journey that it will shift to mostly 100% female with the sprinkles of the transition phase, and very rarely would I ever be 100% male again in my dreams.
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katherine

My dreams have been mixed and at times there seemed to be no definite distinction.  In yet other dreams, I simply wasn't aware of my gender.  In my waking life I'm returning to my feminine self and find myself as female in more of my dreams.
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Pneumonica

I don't always dream myself a sex.  It may be that I am one, but in many of my dreams it just isn't something noticable.  When I do dream myself a sex, I could be male, female, or neither.  I had one dream where I had no penis, no breasts, in-between hips, and generally no major sexual traits at all...  I was taking a shower too.  It was an oddly pleasing dream.  It was quite sensual, though not erotic in any way.
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aubrey

In my early teens my long hair was a huge part of my identity, and I would constantly have dreams of ppl wanting to cut it. I would also have dreams of that thing down there falling off, or would like go into a room and there it would be, laying on the floor lol, and I'd think wow I didn't even miss it. I'd have alot of dreams where I would see a girl, kind of like a fuzzy soap opera dream sequence, and she was in the distance, smiling at me. Later in life I realized it was me that I was seeing, because I look more and more like her everyday.
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phyliscd

when i dream some times i am female and i dream about my toes which are painted red during the winter ,so i always have to wear socks so my family wont see them.
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Reese

#47
When I dream, I'm male, but other people in the dream refer to me as female.
:eusa_wall:

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SakuraPrincess

#48
The first couple of dreams that I do remember, was when I little, which wasn't too long ago, I was male. But i my recent dreams, I'm female.^-^
I think it's because I started my transition. Idk. And also, when other people tell me about their dreams that I have appeared in, I'm a female in thier dreams as well =o. Pretty interesting. Oh and when I do have dreams about my childhood, I'm usually male. It can be really confusing at times.
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Edited out age clues-Emme
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Rosa

     In every dream I have had, I am 1000% female, all woman.  there hasnt been 1 night go by with out me being a female in my freams. In every dream, I have long brown hair that goes down th my knees, bangs, and a size 40F breast. brown eys, and a body to die 4. and the weird thing about my dreams, I get refered to as either Her Royal Highness or Princess Rosa in evey one of them.








Quote from: Vexing on December 08, 2008, 07:25:49 PM
The dreams I've had where I've been 100% female have been exceedingly rare; perhaps a couple of dreams in total.
It's far more common that I'm a trans woman in my dreams - in various stages of convincing appearance and surgery depending on the dream.
Considering I haven't been full time for very long (15 months) I still have many male dreams - and quite often dreams where I've been forced into the male role, despite knowing that I'm a trans woman (i.e. dreams where my hair has been cut off and I've been forced into military service as a male).
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GnomeKid

gender/sex has never come into my dreams
I solemnly swear I am up to no good.

"Oh what a cute little girl, or boy if you grow up and feel thats whats inside you" - Liz Lemon

Happy to be queer!    ;)
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Hazumu

In my dreams, I'm me.

I guess before transition, if I dreamt my gender, it would usually be male, but I remember some where I was female (and then resented waking up.)

After transition, that situation is reversed -- mostly, if I'm a gender, I'm female.  When I dream I'm male (rarely, now,) I usually find it distressing and want to wake up.

Recently, about 2 weeks ago, I had a dream where at one point I was spotted by four guys about 200 yards away from me who then chased me down to rape me.  All I had to do to escape them was run 15 yards back to a house.  But after two steps in the direction of safety, my dream-body shifted into dream-molasses-mode, and they easily overtook me and -- I woke up distressed from the nightmare.

=K
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wolfgirl

In my dreams my sex is inconsistent, and largely depends on the circumstances. Actually My entire identity is pretty fluid when I dream, and sometimes I am dreaming that I am someone else entirely, with a different past, present, and future.  I once dreamed that I was a very young, small blond girl picking up dead rats from an abandoned sewer, so that my adopted family could sell them for supplies. In real life, I am tall with dark, brown, curly hair, male-bodied, and I have had a somewhat comfortable life, financially, with no need to scavenge for rats. I have also dreamed that I was a female commander of some rebel military contending with aliens from another dimension. so really it''s just kinda weird all around.
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Selene

I've almost always been a girl in my dreams no matter if it was a sexual dream or not. I can only remember a couple instances that I was not.
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Ellil

I'm not really sure what sex I am in my dreams. In most of them, I am me.  Like I see in 1st person, and not over the shoulder, or like in a movie.
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Kim_R

I'm usually me as well. It's not me that counts; but it's the setting.

Whenever I dream i'm hanging out with my female friends, in the way i'm one of them, im really happy.

Just like real life, I dont like to be associated male in my dreams. Like, i told me mum she could call me her kid, but not her son. That kind of things.
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Hana

I don't really dream very often and even then i don't usually rememeber it for very long, but a few days ago i had a dream in which i was female and wearing a long dark red/burgady dress, tis a shame i can't remember any more. :-\
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tekla

FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Randy

I rarely remember my dreams, but most of the time there is nothing that would peg me as physically male or female, I'm just myself (so I guess mostly female  :(). Sometimes, though I do have dreams in which I am definitely male, but still a trans-male, with scars from top surgery, etc. I've had only one dream (that I remember) in which I was biologically male.

Osiris

Quote from: Randy on January 02, 2009, 08:13:39 PM
Sometimes, though I do have dreams in which I am definitely male, but still a trans-male, with scars from top surgery, etc. I've had only one dream (that I remember) in which I was biologically male.
I'm the opposite. I'm usually a biomale in my dreams. I've only had a couple of dreams where I was trans.
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