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Started by Kai, April 01, 2009, 12:23:35 AM

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Kai

Not really sure what to say about myself.  Sort of nervous too I guess.  Figured I'd come here to have some people to talk to about certain things and all that.  Seems like a nice enough place though!  So yeah, I really don't know where to go with this, just thought I'd say I'm new around here. Uhh, any questions?
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Janet_Girl

Hi Kai,   :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 2100 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion. Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers.  Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now.  And it is always nice to have another member.   :icon_hug:

Janet

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Cindy

Hi Kai

This is a nice place to find lots of friends and lots of help. We are very supportive, and guess what? We know what it's like to be TG. No problems talking here!

LOve and Hugs

Cindy James
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Kai

I'm sure you guys all know much more about it than I do.  I don't even know what I am or what to call myself. But hopefully I can do something about all of that soon.
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Cindy

Hi Kai
Nothing wrong in that. Post some more info on your problems.
What to call yourself? Easy. A human being
Cindy James
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K8

Quote from: Kai on April 01, 2009, 03:29:46 AM
I'm sure you guys all know much more about it than I do.  I don't even know what I am or what to call myself. But hopefully I can do something about all of that soon.

Hi Kai.  I've found labels tough.  Often none of them seem to fit properly, which always made me feel like I was really weird.  Well, as CindyJames says, we're all human.  If the language doesn't have the proper label, it's the language's problem not ours.

Early on I thought I was a girl but with the wrong stuff, which made others think I was a boy.  For a while I thought I was a gay man except for the fact that I was always attracted to women and never found a man I was attracted to.  Then I thought I was a crossdresser, but somehow that didn't fit either.  Then I thought...  But you get the idea.

Enjoy your journey of self discovery.

- Kate
Life is a pilgrimage.
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NicholeW.

Thanks so much for the introduction. Pleased to "meet" you and hope you enjoy your time spent at Susan's.

Please take the time, if you haven't, to read the Site TOS On The Main Page you'll find links to Chat, Wiki, Links and the Reference Library that you should find helpful in getting to know others here and in finding topics and educational listings that you'll find helpful for transitioning.

All the best, Kai. And welcome!

Nichole
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Kai

Quote from: K8 on April 01, 2009, 07:33:13 AM
Hi Kai.  I've found labels tough.  Often none of them seem to fit properly, which always made me feel like I was really weird.  Well, as CindyJames says, we're all human.  If the language doesn't have the proper label, it's the language's problem not ours.

Early on I thought I was a girl but with the wrong stuff, which made others think I was a boy.  For a while I thought I was a gay man except for the fact that I was always attracted to women and never found a man I was attracted to.  Then I thought I was a crossdresser, but somehow that didn't fit either.  Then I thought...  But you get the idea.

Enjoy your journey of self discovery.

- Kate

Well I'm sure I'll figure it all out soon enough :P
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JENNIFER

Hello Kai, good to see you here.

My advice?  Relax. Your among the bestest friendes you could ever wish for and nothing you may say about yourself can shock us because we have all been there.  Meanwhile, keep smiling.
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myles

Hi Kai and Welcome
Look forward to seeing you around the boards. No questions for you just relax and ask any questions you may have.
Myles
"A life lived in fear is a life half lived"
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Kai

Quote from: JENNIFER on April 01, 2009, 02:47:23 PM
Hello Kai, good to see you here.

My advice?  Relax. Your among the bestest friendes you could ever wish for and nothing you may say about yourself can shock us because we have all been there.  Meanwhile, keep smiling.
I feel relaxed sometimes, but sometimes I just worry too much.  And some things are kind of hard for me to talk about, but I know that'll change soon enough.
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gennee

Welcome, Kai. I didn't discover who I was until 4 years ago (age 56). It took over a yearto be comfortable with my identity. Now I love it.

Gennee


:)
Be who you are.
Make a difference by being a difference.   :)

Blog: www.difecta.blogspot.com
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Kai

I know I shouldn't worry about it, since I've had it pretty easy for myself compared to some others. I mean, I'm 19 now, feel like I haven't even turned 18, and look like I'm about 15.  I'm still young and have plenty of time to figure everything out. Not only that but I have full support from both of my parents, all of my friends, and even my boyfriend, with what I want to do.

But even with all of that, there are still just a lot of personal issues to deal with, and it can be hard sometimes. But it's nice to find more friends to tlak to on here  ;D
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