It's funny to me that people equate "->-bleeped-<-" with the "n-word". I call myself a ->-bleeped-<- all the time. Perhaps it's just one of those words, like "queer", that we need to take back for the good guys (/girls, /whatever...).
Just my opinion. Blake Lively's comments, however, do seem disparaging to me... just reflects the overwhelming public (at least in America) opinion that tall women are abnormal somehow. Doesn't help the cause of many beautiful mtf women who do stand above "normal" female height, but otherwise are quite often more feminine than many genetic women.
My wife is 6'1"... it would be nice if people could see her for something other than her height. As long as opinions like this prevail, however, people like her will likely have to deal with persecution for it.
SD
--- as an afterthought, why do we never see short guys in Hollywood, etc., commenting that they feel like ftms? I'm 5'6", but I don't see guys like Seth Green (who's 5'3") being made to feel less like men.