So.. after much waiting for something to happen, and trying things and having wierd things happen, I finally realized since I'm probably not going to end up getting through therapy because dealing with people's questions and being forced to act like something I'm not just in order to express myself in the way that shouldn't have been a problem in the first place.. is just not me, and is not what I'm trying to do, not to mention hasn't been much help in itself, and i can't really afford it.. I realized! if I just get a bra, and boobs, and wear my hair up most of the time, then that will just be that for the most part, I'll be able to wear whatever clothes without issue mostly in the outside world, and itll be apparent that I'm a girl from the start, and not something I have to explain all the time. I was looking in the mirror with boobs and it suprised me how much I actually pass, finally. I don't know I've seen it before, but I guess its that coupled with my new willingness to go out dressed how I really want to be. So thats what I'm gonna do, and I'm definitely excited about it, but I was wondering, since I don't know the first thing about bras if you guys could help me out? I just want something normal, and kind of cheap, that is comfortable and probably white. Thanks all! peace..