Yeah, I get what you are saying. So many Christians are ignorant about Trans issues that they automatically pass judgment and scorn those who are "different". But it is safe to say that not all Christians are like that. But yes...there are those ignorant Christians that know nothing but spout judgment at you without knowing what they are talking about. Those trans-bashing Christians are the kind that make me ashamed to be a Christian. At least if they would educuate themsleves a bit maybe they would be more understanding. I'm sorry that you have had such a bad exeprience with the Church. *hugs*.
God bless, Alex.