I hope this won't come off as a lame question but..I thought I would ask anyway
I was born in California, and I currently live in Arizona. My transition doesn't look like it will be in the near future, but I would love to try and make any kind of progress towards it without my dad knowing. I have made a legal name change (to a name that will do for now, but if I ever start to transition, I want to change it again) so I guess the next step would be to see a therapist. I'm not too sure, and I can't really look into it right now since I can't do anything about my transition since I still live my parents including my dad. But since I have made a legal name change, I was just curious to ask. How do you go about legally changing your gender? I don't mean physically or anything, I mean on papers and whatnot. Would I need to be on hormones first? Or would I even have to have surgery first? I have heard that you need like a letter from your doctor to send to the place where you get your birth certificate to get that changed, but in order to receive such a letter, do I have to be on hormones or need to have surgery in order to be able to change my gender legally?
I'm hoping for the best that I wouldn't have to go on hormones or anything to do it (I could go to a therapist without my dad knowing, so if that would do...) but by the way my transition path looks, I don't think it will be that way but I thought I would ask to get opinions. I know it differs by state, so that's why I mentioned my state information at the beginning of the topic. Any comments, opinions, ect would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
~Antonio