I do think its just a phase for me, I sincerly hope I'm not offending anything in saying that, but once I settled on "gender queer", I felt much, much better about my "situation". I tried racing through transition once and failed miserably, I'm quite happily gender queer (for) now. I take AAs and I can be whatever I want from one day to the next. For me, it was about taking the pressure off to be anything but myself.