i believe we are all connected to the spiritual realm, and the land of living. when we live, we learn, grow, and develop our own moral character. when we die, our spirit is sent to the spiritual realm. our spirit is essentially just our sense of being, our sense of consciousness. different from the land of living, our spirit sees no binary. our spirit makes no judgement of good/evil, joy/sorrow, me/you, or even male/female.