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Who else is super jealous of super pretty T-girls?

Started by LilKittyCatZoey, July 14, 2011, 12:40:06 PM

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LilKittyCatZoey

Quote from: Keaira on July 14, 2011, 02:47:33 PM
Maybe I am. Maybe I'm not. either way I dont really agree. I'm not saying I am pretty, just that I dont quite agree with their opinion. Someday I might feel otherwise.
LIke words taken from my soul
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jamie nicole

people have different perceptions of what beauty or pretty is.  some see it as outward appearance while others see it as whats inside :)
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girl_ashley

The grass will always appear greener on the other side.
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EmilyElizabeth

I get pretty jealous some days, but I hold out hope that I've still got some wonderful changes waiting for me ahead


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azSam

Jealous? No not really. Perhaps intimidated that I don't quite measure up to the superficial standards that they project.
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Cen

Quote from: Sarah7 on July 14, 2011, 03:58:42 PM
For me, it's the opposite. All the pics of fantastic looking girls, especially those closer to my age and appearance, give me hope for how people might eventually see me.

This.  I still have fears about transitioning, but the results many have achieved have made me more hopeful that I might have good results as long as I put in some effort and keep realistic expectations.  Although, I can't say I don't envy attractive women.  It can be a stark reminder of the state of my own body.
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Tamaki

Quote from: Sarah7 on July 14, 2011, 03:58:42 PM
For me, it's the opposite. All the pics of fantastic looking girls, especially those closer to my age and appearance, give me hope for how people might eventually see me.

I feel the same way, beautiful transgirls give me hope. When I saw some of the transformations and especially what ffs could do I realized that I could transition too.

Who I'm jealous of are the cisgirls. I want hips like they have!
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Maddie Secutura

I used to but I don't get jealous anymore.  I look at myself in the mirror and wish I had a slimmer jaw or a skinnier nose.  But you know what?  All the wishing in the world won't change that and if I did get surgery to make that happen it would probably end up making me look worse than before.  As far as having tanked in the boob department, that's a super easy surgical correction so all I have to do is decide how big to go. 


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jamie nicole

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A

The dream body is a smaller than average girl, very delicate (like, too delicate), with pale skin, big eyes, very cute (but not necessarily "pretty") and all that. Of course I would be jealous of those smaller, cuter, smaller-framed, etc. girls. But it is important for such feelings not to submerge me. If I despair because I can't be super everything I want, not only will I be denied transition, but I will also lose my very drive to live... Again.
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pretty

Personally I'm not really, but then I was born short, small, etc. Didn't do a lot of things that committed me to being male like growing old and starting a family either, so most things are going well. I think I will look fine with HRT though my shoulders bug me sometimes. But yeah I mostly envy cisgirls who can just naturally be themselves and never had to think about any of this stuff or feel afraid of being who they are (at least in terms of gender).
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Centcomm01

... i just remind myself that a lot of the "supposed T-girls" out there that look like totally GGirls ARE GG with photoshop work now .. dont get me wrong the stuff mother nature gave us to work with and what you can do with it is amazing and barring genetics a sergeons knife or saw or worse god forbid its a porn site where they just composite some girls pic with some guys junk *rolls eyes* my personal curse is taking apart bone structures and bodies at a glance - but on the good side , we just do the best we can and to heck with the rest . although there are some drop dead lookers here ... and then .. theres me . *hangs head *
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Vicky

A lot of the young, super pretty T-girls I know are jealous of me, not my looks so much, as this old trans-bat looks like she does.  They are jealous of the fact I've got MONEY to go ahead with my transition. 

Money isn't everything, but it keeps the kids in touch!!
I refuse to have a war of wits with a half armed opponent!!

Wiser now about Post Op reality!!
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Whitney

Quote from: Vicky on July 15, 2011, 12:38:48 AM
A lot of the young, super pretty T-girls I know are jealous of me, not my looks so much, as this old trans-bat looks like she does.  They are jealous of the fact I've got MONEY to go ahead with my transition. 

Money isn't everything, but it keeps the kids in touch!!

Heh, I like this. While I'm still in between school and a full time job, I was lucky enough to have a co-op during uni that paid $30-40k a year. So I have a bit saved up and am loving being able to pursue various things as I wish. Of course not the major steps, but then again I'm only half a year into HRT with no intent of making the switch full time just yet. I plan to get all my ducks in order before making a quick clean cut in my life. I hate dealing with messy loose ends.

Before I get into a response to the OP, the word you're looking for is envy, not jealousy. Sorry to get all grammar-bitch on you, but I'm big on word choice.

Hmm, I prepared a nice paragraph I know too many will take and paint me a creep. So I'll just say it plain and simple. I'm envious the little ones who get to enjoy youth without the dregs of an undesired body defect poured into their, otherwise, delicious cup of life. As for the t-girls who transitioned before hormones ravaged their body, I don't really hold any envy towards them, only regret. Regret that I didn't act when I'd been sitting on my misery for five years, when I was eleven.

And something random @Zoe, I have super fine straight hair, near black. I love it every day. It used to get wavy just before the nape of my neck and it would drive me nuts, but not any more. Just thought I'd tease a little :3

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Whitney

Quote from: AprilAero on July 15, 2011, 01:26:21 AM
I tend to be jealous of beautiful girls in general, but a lot of transgirls tend to be jealous of me.  tho I feel sometimes I don't look good, I might get some FFS one day.



+1 for Samus Aran. Screw you defined gender roles! I'd also have accepted the Pyro from TF2. :3
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JungianZoe

Quote from: Whitney on July 15, 2011, 01:24:32 AM
And something random @Zoe, I have super fine straight hair, near black. I love it every day. It used to get wavy just before the nape of my neck and it would drive me nuts, but not any more. Just thought I'd tease a little :3

You know, I used to straighten mine religiously.  Wouldn't be caught dead leaving the house without spending three or four minutes with the flatiron (my hair's not really curly, just has long waves that sometimes form into big ringlets).  Then I was running late for work one day and didn't have time to straighten at all, and for the first time ever, people complimented my hair! ;D  So I began wondering why I was taking the time to do something that resulted in no compliments at all and gave up the straightening.  Now I usually get four or five people (we're talking random strangers) complimenting my hair every week.

I wouldn't give up my wavy hair for anything... :laugh:
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Naturally Blonde

Quote from: LilKittyCatZoey on July 14, 2011, 12:40:06 PM
I am so jealous have you seen of the girls i mean wow super pretty!!!  i am allowed to dream i could be that pretty right or will i be setting myself up for pain? i started this topic because i know it will be a blast to talk about.

I'm envious of T girls who show no physical signs that they are a T girl and they look totally genetic. They don't have to look like models, just natural and homely. I'm envious of not getting the right female fat distribution (hips, butt etc) which are all female gender indicators. I'm also envious that HRT worked much better on others than it did on me.

Living in the real world, not a fantasy
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jillian

I just want to think I look hott.
Somedays I feel beautiful, somedays I feel like i stand out.

Thats where I am conflicted. I dont mind standing out if it means I am hott and sexy, but I dont want to stand out because ilook like a man ind drag.

either way, its all about how I feel on the inside. No one can say anything to make me feel any different. It is something I have to deal with.
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Muffins

if by some weird chance EllenPage turned out to be trans in some form or another then for sure! Otherwise I'll just continue focusing my drool towards her!
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LilKittyCatZoey

I think my true issue is i cannot see myself as anything good i mean given a choice i would rather be "not pretty" and be a girl then "handsome" and be a boy so pretty much be a girl anyway i just wondered if i am the only one who gets jealous
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