Came out to parents... didn't go so well.

[tekla]

Police and a Psychiatric Crisis Assessment Team

We don't do that stuff here.  That's proactive and US law enforcement reactive, and really we like it that way.

[JessicaH]

I'd take a trigger lock to your aunts house and put it on the gun and tell your aunt to hide the key. Sorry they are acting this way but her actions sound more manipulative than anything. I would bet that she has a history of manipulative behavior, if I had to guess. I would never accept responsibility for someone else's behaviour or reaction to what I do and I certainly wouldn't do or not do something due to a threat from anyone.

[Bird]

Thanks for the support, everyone.

I spoke with my dad yesterday on the phone and he said she is still a bit psycho. *Sigh*. Anyway, I have a lot of anedoctodal evidence, but not a single proof. I haven't SEEN the gun and we couldn't find it yet, it is hidden.

I also want to help her to get out of this crisis, not lock her up. Of course, there might be a point that jailing her up is exactly what should happen to help her, but I don't think the point has arrived yet.

@jessicaH

Yep. I'm not accepting responsability for what she is doing. She is a grown up woman.

[Sam(my)I am]

Well I'll be damned that is a scary moment to read about  '_'
I would by all means seek some form of psych help for your mother, I know your father can have her signed in but I don't know how he's reacting to her *ahem* behavior.
And if you don't feel the point has arrived now it might be a tad to late when it does, and as for locking her up I wouldn't say that's exactly what your doing it's more like removing her from the area of stress and having her be in a controlled environment with help.... ok yeah locking up miiight fit but it conjures a bad image.

Best of luck Maiara!

[Bird]

I'm going to be in contact with a psych this afternoon. Things are fairly bad.

[Bird]

I'm writting here to register the going ons. This situation may lead to a terrible disaster and if I die, I want someone to know what happened with me.

I called a psychiatrist, he said there is little I can do from here. I can either seek to put her in a institution or I can call the cops. From what I heard, she is involved with drugs, guns and really, really, REALLY MOTHER->-bleeped-<-IN BAD people. Her goal seens to find vengeance by murdering the doctors who were involved with my transition here in my university.

My dad is in denial of all of this. He is old and expends most of the time in his bedroom. He is still in shock from what I told him.

I have called relatives from the part of my dad, but there is little they want to do to help her because they don't care. (long history behind they not caring as well). In addition, I don't have the phones from our relatives from HER side of the family.

I called our maid and asked her to speak with my dad and tell him absolutely everything that is going on as soon as possible. She is to call me tommorow and pending on what my father does, I will go back to my hometown and take things on my own hands, that is, get her locked up by force
and myself.

Once in my hometown I also know where some of our relatives live and may  seek help.

The downside of going there and seeing her is that it will trigger conflict with her... I'm completely unsure of what to do and I am praying.

[Constance]

Be careful, Maiara, please. I'll be praying, too.

[Bird]

Well, it seens I must always do things with a boom.

I decided the best (although not obvious) course of action was to come out to my whole family. So I reached out to everyone I could and explained the situation, this would let my mother know her plans are no longer a secret and would have people talk with her about what is going on. She was no longer talking with me at all.

Last I heard from our house maid she had calmed down and is going to talk with a priest. On my part, upon hearing this I cried and thanked god for allowing me to keep my mother and my family.

[Bird]

Well its funny
I have the support from my whole family except my parents, who seen focused on stopping me at all and any costs.

[Constance]

Well, it's good to hear at least some of them are supporting you.

Take care.

[Bird]

Following these events and with the knowledge I have gathered about who my parents truly are, I am closing my current forum account and taking my transition into a deep level of stealth.

I will stil be around, just with a different name I won't make public.

[Constance]

Do what you need to, and be safe.

[Sam(my)I am]

and it seemed things were going rather well, I hope everything is ok and you obtain a better situation.

[Hikari]

I agree, do what you need to to stay safe and comfortable with your online presence,  we will still be here for you regardless of your name or level of detail about your situation.

[Bird]

She has recovered from her psychotic crisis and things are under control. No one is getting murdered, there aren't any drugs being used.

WIth that said, she seens to accept me now and we can talk openly with each other about my issues. My dad is in total denial. They are NOT going to cut on my fundings, so I can still pay for university without problems.

[~RoadToTrista~]

I'm glad it worked out. It would've taken a pretty low person to disown a child like that.

[Bird]

Totally

But holy ->-bleeped-<-, was that a stressful situation... I could never have guessed it would go THAT bad. Anywya, with her supporting me things are going to be a lot easier.

[Jasper]

I really hope my parents don't react like that. What your mother did sounds pretty damn close to what my mother would say and do.

I hope she doesn't react like that. =\

Hopefully it gets better!

[~RoadToTrista~]

Omg mine too >.<, but even she understands how messed up disowning a child would be. My grandma almost did it when she got pregnant with my brother, so I expect a similar turn of events.

[Constance]

She has recovered from her psychotic crisis and things are under control. No one is getting murdered, there aren't any drugs being used.

WIth that said, she seens to accept me now and we can talk openly with each other about my issues. My dad is in total denial. They are NOT going to cut on my fundings, so I can still pay for university without problems.

It's good to know that the psychosis is under control and that some support is beginning. Hopefully your dad will come around, too.