Kay fine, they called me later tonight. We keep in touch through the phone a lot.
It was the usual conversation, then my dad asked if I was going to come over for xmas. I said I thought so, though I won't be in my holidays because med school is insane like that. Then he said both him and her would come over if I didn't.
I am scared at that prospect, not because they are unnacepting but because they are aggressive. Following, I asked if they would feel well if they did come over, and they know why I asked it, because I am FT and because I'm a woman, not a boy. My mother then increased her tone of voice, saying in a fairly aggressive manner "Of course we will feel well? Why wouldn't we? I always did! And tell you what, once I go there I will visit your hospital!"
I asked what for and she said she would just go there to talk with the doctors. I told her they don't let just anyone in, you need to work there, be a patient or know someone who is a patient and come over to visit. Upon this, she changed topics suddenly and said I should stop threatning and embarassing her.
My voice was VERY calm and low (and girly thank god, heheh). Matter of fact I was scared ->-bleeped-<-less of her. Anyway, I was anything but threatning.
I told her I never threat her, though she does it often to me. Upon this, she said she wanted to see her son at xmas, her son <guy name>, who is a manly man. She put a lot of emphasis on manly man. I was afraid to push her, and I just said I prefered to find a way to go over to xmas than have her come here.
Truthfuly, I'd rather have her lose control at home than come here and be aggressive with me. In addition, if things turn very humiliating I can just wait the holidays out then come back, where if she is here she will stay for as long a she wants to.
