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Straight guys...arghhhhh

Started by Mahsa Tezani, October 31, 2011, 03:48:48 AM

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cynthialee

Thats the ol' fightin' spirit!

;)
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: cynthialee on October 31, 2011, 10:41:03 PM
Thats the ol' fightin' spirit!

;)

Naw, just reality... get off the computer and realize people aren't b&w. There are lots of sweet guys out there...

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~RoadToTrista~

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on October 31, 2011, 05:49:42 PM
Actually, I am sure many straight men DO WANT me. I can prove it.. ever think sex goes beyond the genitals? I mean really...this board is incredibly genital fixated and there are straight men who are open minded.

Like honestly, I am less than people here because I don't want srs? I mean even if you get srs, it doesn't change anything and guys don't want to screw someone who used to be a man.

Therefore, sick of hearing about the genitals. I am fine with my genitals...

I agree I find it annoying when people on here refer to ->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<-s as "in the closet" or "sexually confused" or whatever.
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: ~RoadToTrista~ on October 31, 2011, 10:46:16 PM
I agree I find it annoying when people on here refer to ->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<-s as "in the closet" or "sexually confused" or whatever.

What is irony?

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tekla

The Castro is in SF, not LA.  LA has West Hollywood.  They are kinda the same, but no place is really the Castro.  Making sweeping statements about gay culture/subculture based on The Castro is like having an epic theory about all drinking everywhere based on the French Quarter of New Orleans.  And The Castro is only one of three gay areas in SF (4.5 if you want to count the girls in too).  It's kinda of a Disney Gay - all fashionable and not really scary, like say Folsom in SOMA can be.  And it does not have that real obvious marginal gay hustler underbelly like Polk Street has.

And everyone is someone's fetish unless you are really, really boring.  Like dull and vapid - no personality or sense of adventure at all - boring.  A fetish is just a sex toy, its for people who know what they like and have worked on it enough to know what about that really works for them.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: tekla on October 31, 2011, 10:56:10 PM
The Castro is in SF, not LA.  LA has West Hollywood.  They are kinda the same, but no place is really the Castro.  Making sweeping statements about gay culture/subculture based on The Castro is like having an epic theory about all drinking everywhere based on the French Quarter of New Orleans.  And The Castro is only one of three gay areas in SF (4.5 if you want to count the girls in too).  It's kinda of a Disney Gay - all fashionable and not really scary, like say Folsom in SOMA can be.  And it does not have that real obvious marginal gay hustler underbelly like Polk Street has.

Thats the Castro. I used to kick it in Badlands every weekend... When I was a boy it was the place I could be a douche and get away with it.
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cynthialee

Quote from: tekla on October 31, 2011, 10:56:10 PM
... everyone is someone's fetish unless you are really, really boring.  Like dull and vapid - no personality or sense of adventure at all - boring.  A fetish is just a sex toy, its for people who know what they like and have worked on it enough to know what about that really works for them.
Well put!
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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tekla

it was the place I could be a douche and get away with it

I thought that was their motto.  About my least favorite Castro bar of all time.  It was wall to wall douche-bags most of the time, then came June.  Yikes.  Met the owner once, not surprisingly he was a douche too.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: tekla on November 01, 2011, 12:24:08 AM
it was the place I could be a douche and get away with it

I thought that was their motto.  About my least favorite Castro bar of all time.  It was wall to wall douche-bags most of the time, then came June.  Yikes.  Met the owner once, not surprisingly he was a douche too.

Thats my bar...where I learned my tricks and gave men my treats in the supermarket parking after a few mixed drinks and Britney.
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tekla

Yeah, $20 bucks, same as downtown.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: tekla on November 01, 2011, 12:32:37 AM
Yeah, $20 bucks, same as downtown.

I don't do crap like that anymore and I didn't actually collect money. I was always kissing a Pinoy in the corner...and we decided to go do stuff in the parking lot.

Being a ts made me actually respect myself.
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Jacelyn

Straight guys have high fixation on the pussy, even if they may fall for some attractive pre-op, during the relationship they are likely to encourage their pre-op partner for srs, so even if one show self-acceptance of the penis, it is not sign of respect for the guy's feeling and expectation, such self-acceptance is a turn-off for them. If a MTF considered herself female, she should pretend as well as act all the way from srs to refraining from revealing true identity directly.

I have known MTF who don't pass physically, and is contented for never being able to find a straight male as partner, is prepared to live alone, but nontheless considered srs due to the wish to have a pussy. I can see that you can pass fairy well, it is such a waste not willing to have additional surgery to attained the needed look physically.
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: Jacelyn on November 01, 2011, 02:19:57 AM
I have known MTF who don't pass physically, and is contented for never being able to find a straight male as partner, is prepared to live alone, but nontheless considered srs due to the wish to have a pussy. I can see that you can pass fairy well, it is such a waste not willing to have additional surgery to attained the needed look physically.

+1

Thanks

Thats what a lot of my friends tell me... that I should go all the way. I don't know. rather get minor ffs and breast augmentation.
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Butterflyhugs

Quote from: Jacelyn on November 01, 2011, 02:19:57 AM
Straight guys have high fixation on the pussy, even if they may fall for some attractive pre-op, during the relationship they are likely to encourage their pre-op partner for srs, so even if one show self-acceptance of the penis, it is not sign of respect for the guy's feeling and expectation, such self-acceptance is a turn-off for them. If a MTF considered herself female, she should pretend as well as act all the way from srs to refraining from revealing true identity directly.

Go crawl back into your hole. It's clear you're most at home in the dark
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Cindy

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Cindy

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