Well the storm has formed on the horizon as I've told my father that there is something that I need to let him know in which I know he will DEFINITELY not approve of. I told him I loved him and I will be telling him this because of that love and therefore I would let him make the choice instead of making the choice for him and just up and vanish.
So... did I do the right thing? Guess we'll find out.
~Gadg