I know that I can pass fairly well, I get a lot of "cheers mate"'s when I'm paying in shops/getting off busses, and people have called me a guy straight out before, as well as one lecturer constantly saying "LADY and gentlemen" to refer to our class with me, a girl and eleven or so guys in (that really riles the girl, I think she thinks she's sticking up for me or something when she corrects him, but its the "correction" that annoys me most.) At the very least I tend to get young kids asking each other loudly whether they think I'm a "boy or girl". Then someone compliments me on my haircut and says that "it's not often you can get a short hair cut to look that cute and feminine." I know I need a haircut, but I'm always scared of it getting cut too feminine -- the hair dressers all know me because it's a small place and we used to run a popular pub -- and I struggle to get the time off work to go and have it cut. So I'm pretty confused as to whether or not I pass or not, especially as I found out today that some builders spoke to the chef at work and said something about "that boy that walked through here looked pretty miserable," only to be told that I was the wait
ress, which they didn't believe at all and were adamant that I was a guy, which is brilliant because no one's ever been that confident about my gender before.
Anyway, what do you guys, girls and other peoples think? Because I'm getting conflicting views on what I am at the minute.

This isn't a furry coat, it's a blanket. I'm curled up in front of a halogen heater because it's cold enough to see my breath in here.

My body (ish):

And do you think I'm more of an Alex or an Adam? I'm fluctuating between the two again.
P.S.: Someone please sticky this again?