I comfort myself by knowing that many - if not all - ggs are just as prone to compare themselves to other more –attractive- ggs. They do seem to suffer less pangs though, - unless very plain pimply teenagers.
Why on earth would we be the exception – and when going through puberty?!
Guys do it less by far - and if they are well grounded, not at all.
None of: my car, my house, my kids, my dog, my dong, my girl friend/wife, my friends, stuff.
For straight cis-guys to look at other dudes and wanting to be or look like them is a big no-no! It be considered gay! Oh MY!
So we tend to bring this attitude into our girly side - and suffer.
Oh, did I suffer early during transition! I did share my notions with older ggs and they had managed to get over it long ago - said it was puberty causing it mostly (with me –-- and them at the time).
I'm lots better with it these days - it is absolutely related to all things GID, - do NOT forget that.
If and when GID is mostly taken care off, so be most all of this comparison jealousy.
Looking like a guy at times... well some ggs do, getting straight out of bed, neither too pretty a picture either.
Lastly, how many females (by comparison) would you notice you would NEVER want to look like?
There ARE plenty! At least for me... so?
Feel like a big butt, mommy arms, bad skin, bad hair cut, no dress sense, a scowl in place of a nice smile, and a walk like a worn out trooper, etc. etc.
So, just give yourself a break, I suggest :-)
Axélle
