Regarding the group. . .
I had attempted to follow up on the second message, but it seems the number was no longer good.
I have been a bit reluctant as both groups are more dedicated to transgender as opposed to crossdressing. While we have many simularities, there are differences as well. I had posted a message about the crossdressing group on fetlife as well, specifically stating I was interested in forming a support group ONLY, I received several responses looking for a sexual hookup. . ..
There are a total of 3 of us that are communicating now, and are still interested in a crossdressing group. We are not transexuals, and we feel that there are some important differences between the needs of both groups. As we have no desire to change sex or actually modify our bodies, we would like to find other crossdressers.
I suspect in a city as big as Oklahoma city, there are many other crossdressers who do not have body modification desires.