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Is Thinking About Bottom Surgery Now Worth The Effort?

Started by King Malachite, April 15, 2012, 04:37:42 PM

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King Malachite

Judging from what some of you all said I have concluded that it is certainly worth the time to think about it now!  Like Felix and Zerro I like thinking about it. Just thinking about it gives me about 98% motivation and 2% (and that 2% just comes from being very jealous with guys with not-so-average meta size).  I'm one of the guys that has to get bottom surgery and if that means no improvements by the time I am ready then just so be it.  I've grown to be okay with the types of procedures currently and what they have to offer but just imagine what would be out there by the time I am ready?  From what a lot of you guys have said it's good to have a plan and to keep an eye out on new techniques so I can plan accordingly.  It makes sense doing it that what so when I can actually have the opportunity to get bottom surgery I don't have to start "from scratch" which would only take longer.  I'm going to be searching for anything new that pops up in the field of bottum surgery but I'm not going to obsess over it anymore like justmeinoz mentioned and Kyyn I totally know how you feel about the first part.  That's one of the biggest reasons I want bottom surgery and thatsme thanks for sharing your experience as I'm sure I will bug you with questions in the future lol.  I hope you don't mind. 

Again thanks for the support from some of you! :)
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thatsme

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supremecatoverlord

Quote from: thatsme on April 16, 2012, 11:59:21 AM
Hello i am new here but actully i was here years ago but for the life of me i can not remember what email addy i had back then!!
I had a fair few in my time lol.

Any way thought i would reply as someone not only HAD phalloplasty but fully recovered too!

The pictures you see on the internet most are outdated and some are not finshed (infact ALOT are not finshed) results but even if they are as long as the person having them is happy thats all that counts!

Most people sadly if there happy they don't tend to post pictures it comes down to most things really people are keen to moan and post pictures but if something is good they tend to leave and be happy!
Also the very fact people worry what they feel is good results may get people saying its rubbish they don't post as they don't want how happy they are to be Knocked down!

My point of view from myself only is its totally worth the money. pain and time it takes imgine waking up every morning with NO hang ups about your body nothing about your body upsets you!! well thats me!!!!

Also from reading here the view of meta and phallo when finshed is not the correct view i have freinds with meta that have sex!! and phallo nothing is needed extra i have sex with my penis i can totally feel it and damm it feels good!

SO really what you need to think is it right for you can you afford it
can you handle the time and pain to get it!
And of course are the results what you want!

Mine passes as a male penis in chaging rooms, toilets, and even when i went to the ER with a cath block after stage 2 the nurse and doctor had no idea it was man made!

So yes it depends on surgion and luck what results you get
This is so comforting.
Thank you for posting this.


Who was your surgeon if you don't mind me asking?
Meow.



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thatsme

Dr Ralf and Mr christpher in the uk did first operation together and rest was done via Mr christpher! in the uk
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Adio

Quote from: thatsme on April 16, 2012, 02:58:40 PM
Dr Ralf and Mr christpher in the uk did first operation together and rest was done via Mr christpher! in the uk

That's a good team.  Congrats on such a successful outcome :)
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poptart

Quote from: JasonRX on April 16, 2012, 02:49:53 PM
This is so comforting.
Thank you for posting this.

I was goin' to say the same thing.
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supremecatoverlord

Meow.



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Sharky

Quote from: thatsme on April 16, 2012, 11:59:21 AM
Hello i am new here but actully i was here years ago but for the life of me i can not remember what email addy i had back then!!
I had a fair few in my time lol.

Any way thought i would reply as someone not only HAD phalloplasty but fully recovered too!

The pictures you see on the internet most are outdated and some are not finshed (infact ALOT are not finshed) results but even if they are as long as the person having them is happy thats all that counts!

Most people sadly if there happy they don't tend to post pictures it comes down to most things really people are keen to moan and post pictures but if something is good they tend to leave and be happy!
Also the very fact people worry what they feel is good results may get people saying its rubbish they don't post as they don't want how happy they are to be Knocked down!

My point of view from myself only is its totally worth the money. pain and time it takes imgine waking up every morning with NO hang ups about your body nothing about your body upsets you!! well thats me!!!!

Also from reading here the view of meta and phallo when finshed is not the correct view i have freinds with meta that have sex!! and phallo nothing is needed extra i have sex with my penis i can totally feel it and damm it feels good!

SO really what you need to think is it right for you can you afford it
can you handle the time and pain to get it!
And of course are the results what you want!

Mine passes as a male penis in chaging rooms, toilets, and even when i went to the ER with a cath block after stage 2 the nurse and doctor had no idea it was man made!

So yes it depends on surgion and luck what results you get

Do you know where you can see finished results?
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MrTesto

Thatsme, thank you very much for posting your experience!

Quote from: Sharky on April 16, 2012, 07:29:37 PM
Do you know where you can see finished results?

I haven't seen this conference listed on the Susan's calendar, but there is a guy who has presented an awesome workshop several times since last year, and he is doing it again this year at the Philadelphia Trans Health conference. http://www.trans-health.org/ He has pics that guys have agreed to only be shown in FTM space, not posted online, and he had more men with lower surgeries showing theirs in person than I have ever seen total in 15+ years of transition.

Other than that, there is an adult user-generated content video site where there are actually a good number of metas (I haven't checked for phallos), 'in action' in a number of ways. I'm not sure I'm allowed to post an x-rated site, so I won't in open space. I can PM people over 18 if anyone can't guess the site.
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gram

*WARNING*

The following link contains graphic pics.

http://www.transgenderzone.com/features/mitchftm.htm

This guys turned out pretty damn good!!


I think it is still worth thinking about...even though I am a street kid, and make my money playin music and dont have a cent saved up, i still dream about it. i dont know if i ever will go through with it, because it is daunting, and scary! but all surgeries are scary.

i used to feel like the same way Stealthy does...it was disheartening to see so many very small ones. Dont get me wrong, I am sure they work well for the guys who have them, and i would be glad to have any penis at all, but yeah...plus being mildly autistic as well, i understand Stealthy's wording, shi wasn't trying to be mean but aspies are crass and we just speak our minds is all...it wasnt to shun others or invalidate them at all.

just my two cents. (lol)
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Kyyn

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bioengineering

They're currently researching growing appendages so that bioengineering may be used to create fully functional penises.
I'm holding out for this. Hope hope hope it's not too far away.
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thatsme

yes mitch had his done YEARS ago by the same team as me he went for the phallo made from the tummy skin though!

there is a yahoo group out there for phalloplasty not sure i am allowed to link it!

If you see a surgion they most have portfolios of there work other than that as stated sometimes trans meets/events show them live (i am told) only been told this as never been to a trans meet event in my life.


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King Malachite

Quote from: Kyyn on April 17, 2012, 04:28:56 AM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bioengineering

They're currently researching growing appendages so that bioengineering may be used to create fully functional penises.
I'm holding out for this. Hope hope hope it's not too far away.

I had researched that and no doubt it seems promising.  It would be great if it came really soon.  If anything it can be used for genetic men who somehow lost their genitals in combat or crazy ex lovers or whatever may be the case and then passed down to us.
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"Anomalies can make the best revolutionaries."
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Kyyn

Quote from: Malachite on April 17, 2012, 07:45:58 PM
I had researched that and no doubt it seems promising.  It would be great if it came really soon.  If anything it can be used for genetic men who somehow lost their genitals in combat or crazy ex lovers or whatever may be the case and then passed down to us.

Here's hoping! I have a lot of friends in the field that joke about it.
They don't know about me, but I'm tempted to come out to them to see if they'll keep an eye out for me. I'll let you know if anything comes of it

While the phalloplasty does look like it works, I don't heal very well and the thought of being covered in scars is a bad trigger for me
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harlee

Thatsme, Im happy that you got really good results :) I think this one looks really good too!

(You might have to log in to see the link)
http://www.transbucket.com/members/galleries/processForm.php?page=17&surgeryType=FTM%20Phalloplasty






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thatsme

Yes that one is good results too! see thats a diffrent surgion too me so it does show  there is many good ones out there!

Dont forget you can get medical tattoo's aswelll if you want vains ect on it
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JayKyle

It's really good to know that there are good results with bottom surgery and that it does in fact work for them....i don't know how many sites i've read where people have said have said it doesn't work...but then again, those people probably didn't actually have the surgery themselves and didn't know what they were talking about....It's very comforting to hear success stories and that the knowledge of the field is still growing...perhaps by the time i get to the point of having it myself, the results will be even better!
Being me is the way it should be.
God made me this way so get used to it XD
Black is a freaking rainbow >.<
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GnomeKid

I go through phases.  I know I want to get it done as soon as possible.  Possible, however, may be quite a few years down the line, and impossible to judge at the moment.   Every maybe 6 months to a year though I'll start looking everything up again and just thinking of ways to get it done before letting it die out and just thinking "someday."
I solemnly swear I am up to no good.

"Oh what a cute little girl, or boy if you grow up and feel thats whats inside you" - Liz Lemon

Happy to be queer!    ;)
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Roxanne

Quote from: thatsme on April 18, 2012, 11:47:40 AM
Yes that one is good results too! see thats a diffrent surgion too me so it does show  there is many good ones out there!

Dont forget you can get medical tattoo's aswelll if you want vains ect on it

That's me I know your post is like a month old, but are you still answering questions? My BFF is really curious to know how it feels to someone else compared to a biomale. Not trying to pry, but have you ever touched one on a biomale and does it feel the same or different?

Question is also open to anyone who has had a phalloplasty or knows anyone who has as well.
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Make_It_Good

Quote from: thatsme on April 16, 2012, 02:58:40 PM
Dr Ralf and Mr christpher in the uk did first operation together and rest was done via Mr christpher! in the uk

Im glad to hear how happy you are and that you went to these guys :D
I was referred last year, had my consultation with Mr Christopher just this March and I think they had abit of confusion because after  calling several times found out they were giving me another consultation for July. I managed to get Vera the secretary to move it to in 12days ;) Should hopefully get a date for 1st stage with Mr Christopher this Summer!

Its great to hear of your experiences.Im on the yahoo group which is very informative, but like you said, alit of people once happy, seem to just leave and live on, which is  understandable.
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