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The "normal" pills

Started by caliyr, May 30, 2012, 07:36:17 PM

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If there was a pill that would make you feel good as your biological sex instantly, would you take it?

No, I never would
40 (64.5%)
Yes, of course!
16 (25.8%)
Other (please comment)
6 (9.7%)

Total Members Voted: 57

caliyr

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Shang

Nope.  If I did, I wouldn't be me and I like me (albeit I'll like me more when I transition).
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Edge

I'm leery of any pill that affects my brain because they tend to have horrible effects on me.
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PrincesseAlli

Never. Being a woman is the most wonderful gift.  :)
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King Malachite

Heck yes!   That would be waaaaay less expensive than transitioning.  Plus I wouldn't have to deal with the mental torment every freaking second in my mind over the fact that I am not biologically male.
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Shawn Sunshine

I would not take any such pill, but I would step into a magic machine that let me be a cis woman! I would also from time to time go into the machine to turn into a cis male, but not very often , would spend 90% of the time as a woman. (this is why i voted other)
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Ellieka

In a heartbeat! I was a damn hot guy! :p
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Julie Wilson

It's too late for me.  I already did everything the hard way.  But yes, if you had approached me before transition I would have taken the pill just to be normal.
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LordKAT

?   Define 'normal'.

The more I see so called 'normal' people, the more I prefer the craziness of being me.
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kristin_soon

yeah, sounds a lot easier than hormones and surgery plus issues with family and friends, baggage and well not passing necessarily. Ask me if I would currently rather have a normal pill making me happy with my birth gender or becoming completely female, you might get another response though.
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Sephirah

Probably not. Mainly because my sense of self and self-identity comes from my mind, from within myself. And it's taken me a good long time to realise that, actually, I already am "normal" in this context. I'm not someone trying to be someone else. Who I am is who I am. I just have a few anatomical discrepencies to deal with.

Altering that with a pill would place the emphasis on the anatomy instead. It's the biology which is abnormal, in my view, not the psychology or even spirituality. I am so much more than a body, or sexual organs, and I don't want to change that now I've finally come to terms with it and what it means to me. Altering 90% to fit the other 10% seems somehow... wrong.
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Jamie D

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Jamie D

Quote from: The Original Cami on May 30, 2012, 09:22:41 PM
In a heartbeat! I was a damn hot guy! :p

Doesn't mean you can't be a damn hot girl.
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Ellieka

Quote from: Jamie D on May 30, 2012, 09:45:52 PM
Doesn't mean you can't be a damn hot girl.

LOL! I'm trying !
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LordKAT

Quote from: Jamie D on May 30, 2012, 09:45:52 PM
Doesn't mean you can't be a damn hot girl.


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Ellieka

For real! she's got a big enough ego already! :p
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Shawn Sunshine

ahh but how would this said pill work on a inter sexed person? As some choose to have an operation and some do not. Some are still assigned a sex at birth and then later that person says "uh uh. no way, that's not me"

I still think the autopsies of mft and ftm brains shows that something is up, the brains are not the same as the anatomical outside shell (that is before they transitioned) Hence it is my opinion that transsexuals while not showing any signs that are obvious like male and female parts at birth, still have something that is different inside the brain.

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wheat thins are delicious


Yes, I'd take it, or a pill that would make me instantly cis male, but it would have to also make me forget all the pain and discomfort of living as my wrong sex. 


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wheat thins are delicious

Quote from: ShawnTOShawnna on May 30, 2012, 10:42:22 PM
ahh but how would this said pill work on a inter sexed person? As some choose to have an operation and some do not. Some are still assigned a sex at birth and then later that person says "uh uh. no way, that's not me"

I still think the autopsies of mft and ftm brains shows that something is up, the brains are not the same as the anatomical outside shell (that is before they transitioned) Hence it is my opinion that transsexuals while not showing any signs that are obvious like male and female parts at birth, still have something that is different inside the brain.



The problem for a lot of intersex people is they get even less say at birth than trans people, because doctors still perform unnecessary surgeries on the genitals of intersex babies because it will be "easier" to raise them with "normal" genitals.   I recommend the documentary Intersexion [/url]http://www.tigerhowarddevorephd.com/2011/07/18/intersexions-is-she-or-isnt-he/


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BlueSloth

Hmm.  So it wouldn't change my gender, it'd just make me feel ok about my body.  That complicates things...

If it actually changed my gender, it'd be an obvious no, since then I wouldn't be me anymore.  Rationally it'd be a good idea (assuming it's an ideal hypothetical pill with no risk), but it goes against some pretty deep instincts to let myself be changed like that.

But if I keep my gender and just feel good in my body as it is...  it would still make things easier for me, and it's very tempting, but it sounds like some kind of happy pill.  Something to take and forget my problems.  I've already tried letting myself be prescribed more and more "happy pills" until my mind was mush and I couldn't feel anything.  I'm still on one of them, but overdoing it was one of the things that contributed to me considering the previous decade a partial disaster for me.

So no.  Although admittedly I may be biased and taking too much of my emotional baggage into the question.
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