The "normal" pills

[Cindy]

No because I'm happy with my gender. It's not being a buxom, blonde, bimbo, sex bomb that lets me down.

[justmeinoz]

Maybe at six years of ago, but not now.  I am having too much fun.

[caliyr]

?   Define 'normal'.
The more I see so called 'normal' people, the more I prefer the craziness of being me.

I feel the same, and by normal I meant "someone who is content with their gender"

It's the biology which is abnormal, in my view, not the psychology or even spirituality. I am so much more than a body, or sexual organs, and I don't want to change that now I've finally come to terms with it and what it means to me. Altering 90% to fit the other 10% seems somehow... wrong.

Couldnt have said it any better.

I still think the autopsies of mft and ftm brains shows that something is up, the brains are not the same as the anatomical outside shell (that is before they transitioned) Hence it is my opinion that transsexuals while not showing any signs that are obvious like male and female parts at birth, still have something that is different inside the brain.

We must be the "new race" of human race or something! Just kidding, of course.

[Renee D]

I would have taken it when I was younger and thought I would never be able to do anything about all this, but not now.

[A]

Of course. Unless one is quite advanced in transition and it would be even more of a struggle to go back, I see no logical reason to not want such a pill. Who on earth would WANT to feel pain and spend a fortune to just acquire the ability to be happy if they can have it to begin with? However, let's be realistic: it's entirely impossible. No pill can change how people feel about things, let alone something as deeply rooted as gender identity.

[caliyr]

Unless one is quite advanced in transition and it would be even more of a struggle to go back, [...] let's be realistic: it's entirely impossible. No pill can change how people feel about things, let alone something as deeply rooted as gender identity.

I never mentioned anything like its impossible, this question is a supposition, and the question did not include how far one did go in transition, its a mental thing, if people would have chosen to get "happiness" in the easy way, with a simple pill if such existed, or they would have gone thru transition instead. Transition isnt only pain. (my opinion tho)

[A]

I know, I know. I just tend to be a party breaker naturally~.

Anyway, what do you think is good with transition, if you take out the fact that it brings you closer to your true self? I can't see it...

[Lyric]

The concept of what is "normal" always has and always will be defined by the prejudices of the person in power using it. Any such pill would only be transforming yourself into someone else's ideal. I guess it beats mass murder, but not by much.

Personally, I only take pills to resolve diseases. I find being unique a gift and not a disease. I'd almost say the "normal" is a disease, but it's actually more of a fantasy. There really isn't any such thing as normal. Whether it's being transgender or being five feet tall or being born in Ohio, your various characteristics define who you are. And who you are is OK and maybe even great. I know I am.

~ Lyric ~

[Shang]

I feel the same, and by normal I meant "someone who is content with their gender"

I'm content with my gender.  I'm not content with my sex.  As a friend put it, I'm male, but my body never got the memo.

[Ms. OBrien CVT]

I already take a "normal" pill, it is called Estradiol.

Paraphrased from Arawn:

I'm content with my gender.  I'm not content with my sex.  I'm female, but my body never got the memo.

[JoanneB]

This is a great question. I've been thinking a lot about for days.

At this point in my life with the level of plain ole self-acceptance I've achieved I think not. I really do believe being trans has been a gift. We do see the world and the people in way "Normal" people simply cannot.

3, 30, 40, even 50 years ago there sure would have been a different answer. There are times even now I may wish there was, that does not last for long.

Do I feel better about myself because I am now living my life somewhat as a "Normal" woman? You bet. Would I be a better person if I had a "Normal Pill"? I think not.

I think the closest analogy for us can be found in the movie "Harvey", one of my absolute top 10 movies. Given the chance to be "normal" Jimmy Stewart opts for the procedure because of all the pressure from family and friends. When they all suddenly realize that he will indeed be a normal typical person ( aka grumpy PITA with no joy of the world around them ), they have a change of heart.

[AbraCadabra]

Probably not. Mainly because my sense of self and self-identity comes from my mind, from within myself. And it's taken me a good long time to realise that, actually, I already am "normal" in this context. I'm not someone trying to be someone else. Who I am is who I am. I just have a few anatomical discrepencies to deal with.

Altering that with a pill would place the emphasis on the anatomy instead. It's the biology which is abnormal, in my view, not the psychology or even spirituality. I am so much more than a body, or sexual organs, and I don't want to change that now I've finally come to terms with it and what it means to me. Altering 90% to fit the other 10% seems somehow... wrong.

This!

Why it took me so long to figure it out? Who can say?

Always was a 'slow developer'... hum

Axélle

[Felix]

Some related posts:

If you could alter your past which would you prefer?
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=8091.0

If you could take a magic wand and make your feelings disappear and live the life you were physically born as, would you?
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=56778.0

What is Transitioning really?
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=3241.0

[Trans Truth]

No. It's erasing me, and I don't like to be erased.

Plus I don't see why I should live as the opposite gender again.

[Stealthy]

I would throw those pills right back at the cis person who offered them and walk away.

[aleon515]

In a heartbeat! I was a damn hot guy! :p

Looks to me like you are a danged hot gal.


BTW, normal is a dryer setting!

--Jay Jay

[grrl1nside]

I think the presumption here is that the biological is being equated with the physical sex which is challenging enough when issues of intersexuality comes up... What then? Regardless, I do think there is at least some biological or genetic component to the way our mind/brain has developed as transsexuals. So, here is the thing, the pill I would want is one that changed my body in line with my mind rather than erasing the feelings I have in my mind to be happy with my body. Now, if there was a pill that allowed me to instantly alter society to being open and accepting that would be fantastic... It would have to be a pretty powerful pill though!

[BlueSloth]

I think the presumption here is that the biological is being equated with the physical sex which is challenging enough when issues of intersexuality comes up... What then?

If the pill changed gender to match sex, then in that case I suppose it'd make somebody an androgyne.

[TheKickitSpot]

I wouldn't take it even if it was offered for free. I AM NORMAL. Accepting this "normal" pill is like saying you're in denial of who you really are. And how does one even define NORMAL? Are transsexual abnormal?? Handing me this pill is like a slap in the face.

[CrisatSbux]

I voted 'other' because I'm still not sure. I'm still in the process of discovering exactly what I want. There are just so many factors to take into consideration.