I work with 87 women on a daily basis. What makes a woman feminine you ask? Well some women dress very girly, and are very feminine pointing out what is cute and what isnt, comparing hairstyles and colors and makeup tips and nails and shoes and .........etc.
Some women are just slightly feminine and just dab a dash of makeup on and wear scrubs.
Some women wear no makeup, don't get their hair done, walk straight and stiff, are all businesslike and serious.
Some women are a mixture of all three. Some are like some men I have met. They curse, spit, talk about who they screwed, and brag on how drunk they got last weekend and they look more girly than many of the women they work with.
I have seen gay men act more feminine than most women I work with!!! I have seen straight men act slightly feminine.
Acting feminine is a personal thing. Some females are more feminine, and some males are more feminine than their counterparts.
Being me has its advantages because women feel very comfortable with me around and they are themselves. They don't care what they say around me nor do they care what I see. After 7 years I've seen pretty much everything being the ONLY MALE employee in the company. Yes that is right. I have observed and seen things that blew every theory of what I thought a woman was right out of the water. Women are just people and guess what? They are all different. They are just breasted Americans that have more freedoms then their male counterparts have. I know some of the most unfeminine females you would ever care to know, yet they are female. I know some of the most feminine women you would ever care to know as well...and they are less than 5% of the women that work for the company. Most are not that feminine....they are just female.
Now the drug reps that come to schmooze the doctors into using their drugs are a different story. Most of these women look like they stepped out of a page of some magazine like Newport News, or Fredericks, or Victoria Secrets. They look like that 5% I was telling you about. The bigger the drug company, the younger and prettier the reps will be.
When the competition gets going....the tough get very feminine. They work out, get their hair done, boob jobs, and are just drop dead beautiful. What makes them feminine? Competition from other women trying to outdo their beauty. Women have their beauty and they will pull out every trick, tip and fashion idea to outdo the threat. They will act very coy and girly around the male Dr's but when he turns his back, out come her fangs and claws if she senses another drug rep nearby. Its a cut throat industry and these gals are armed to the teeth with femininity.
