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How to stop kids from staring at you?

Started by Father Way, June 10, 2012, 07:55:10 PM

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Father Way

They're about 5-6 yr old boys and don't speak english. Any suggestion? They're kind of becoming aggressive too :-/ 
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Ms. OBrien CVT

Stare back.  Or just stick your tongue out at them.

  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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wheat thins are delicious

Stare back, wave and smile, flip them off, stare angrily and then charge at them.


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Brooke777

Just give them a blank stare. It will probably scare the crap out of them.
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Devlyn

Quote from Andy "charge at them" I like that. Is that you in the avatar? If it is, they're just looking a your hair. I'm slightly over the age of five, so I don't stare, I walk over to people with blue, green, purple or bright red hair and tell them I like it. Next time, point at your hair and smile, see what happens. Hugs, Devlyn
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Frank

Hi Gerard, love the hair. (Actually I'm digging the recent brown more.)  :D
If kids are staring, I usually wave back and make silly faces at them, which usually gets a laugh but if they're being rude, just stare back. They'll probably look away and then start looking again when they think you look away, just stare back a couple times and it'll probably end. Kids have less of a "polite" filter, which is why you get staring and comments like "You have really big boobs/butt/fat!"
-Frank
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Traivs

No matter what you do kids are going to stare. When I go to pick up my son from daycare I have this liitle girl always come up to me the same every time Girl: You look like a boy... Me: Yeah Girl: but your a girl? Me: Kinda Girl: But you look like a boy? I am sure you get the picture it happens all the time though. I also had a little kid walk up too me on the bus get really close and then ask Are you a Boy?   Note: I live my life as a guy everywhere but my sons daycare where I let them just keep guessing since I know the owner
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supremecatoverlord

As long as you don't pass, it's more likely that people will stare at you - especially children, because they're more likely not to "mind their manners".
I'm not sure you can do much to prevent this if that's the reason they are staring at you.
Meow.



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Nygeel

Quote from: partypoison on June 10, 2012, 07:55:10 PM
They're about 5-6 yr old boys and don't speak english. Any suggestion? They're kind of becoming aggressive too :-/
Make loud noises/scare them.
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geek

I flip them off, double points if you do it in front of their parents. I've only ever had one parent go off their chops at me for it, and they STFU once i pointed out the rude little c*nt they raised. >_>




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PixieBoy

Smile your prettiest smile and go about your business. I've had a grown man do a quintuple-take (you know a double take? he did that five flippin' times) because of my hair once, haha, not only kids stare and act weirdly.
...that fey-looking freak kid with too many books and too much bodily fat
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poptart

Stare back until they look away out of awkwardness. Some kids don't find it awkward, so just say "what?" and look pissed. This usually intimidates them and they stop.
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Kelly J. P.

 I think kids just stare. I try not to think about it too much... unsuccessfully at times.
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conformer

Stare back with a blank face. Then jump at em' if they keep staring back lol.

Happens to me a lot because most of the kids where I live have never seen a white person in real life =/

dalebert

Quote from: conformer on June 11, 2012, 09:34:16 AM
Stare back with a blank face. Then jump at em' if they keep staring back lol.

You should just talk to them in your android from Alien movie voice. That'll scare 'em off! ;)

conformer

Quote from: dalebert on June 11, 2012, 03:13:18 PM
You should just talk to them in your android from Alien movie voice. That'll scare 'em off! ;)

Damn you! xD

Carbon

What does aggressive mean? What is the context?
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BMXJake

I used to get this in bathrooms (when I still used the women's regularly). I just ignore them, my brother is 8 so I know how kids can be. They see things pretty black and white, so (as far as the bathroom goes) when they are in a women's restroom and see someone who might be perceived as male they just get confused and are trying to make sense of you.  Nowadays kids just see me as male, mostly probably an adolescent boy. My brother doesn't know about me yet, we want to tell him after he's done with school especially cause he'll be going to a new school next year. I felt bad (and amused) because I escorted him to a birthday party last week and all his friends thought he was BS'ing them by telling them I was his sister-they insisted I was a boy, hahaha.


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A.T

Start acting like a dinosaur and declare the area you are in is Sparta.
I'm batman.
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Brayden

Ugh. I hate that. I always get nasty looks and comments by my neighbors kids, and randoms kids as well. Especially when I'm driving.
I just try to tell myself to ignore them.  Going to the heart of it by confronting their parents only led to more problems. :/
Kids in their puberty phase are always the worst, most of the time they are only trying to make sense of you and the world, I guess.
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