When the erections are gone, penetration is no longer possible.
However the nerves are still connected and as sensitive as ever. Oral or manual stimulation is as pleasurable as it ever was before. If you are lucky you will grow some sensitive breasts.
After my wife has had an orgasm or two, it's my turn. She will often ask whether I want fellatio or breast sucking, and I frequently prefer breast sucking.
Any candid and truthful woman will tell you there is a direct nerve connection between the breasts and the genital regions. Estrogen will awaken this long dormant connection. I've never had an orgasm exclusively from breast stimulation, but find it's really necessary now.
The nature of an orgasm changes too, and arousal causes an overall body heat and glow. At times the arousal is so pleasurable you don't want it to end, and the desire for orgasm is reduced.
I've also had both dry orgasms and the squirting kind. They are different but both pleasurable.
All in all, losing the erection is no big deal for either my wife or myself. Although she thought she would miss being penetrated, she now agrees that the clitoris is the center of pleasure. I think we both enjoy sex more than ever, although I greatly admire her ability to achieve multiple orgasms easily, and envy her body. I've very much like to "be like her".
Randi
Quote from: mementomori on June 28, 2012, 07:57:13 PM
forgive me for sounding like a idiot , but how does sex work once youve been on hormones for a while as a non op?
