At 5'7" I don't think I stand out too much. I almost always wear at least 3" heels though (women's size 10 US.) I don't think my hands are all that large, but keeping my nails manicured and beautifully painted with bright colors goes a long way towards keeping them pretty and feminine. As a competitive pool player, my hands are often exposed under bright lights on display on a pool table; I like to keep them nice.
At any rate, my hair is very, very long, with pink and blue and purple and burgundy and jet black streaks and my chest is tattooed... and I usually have bright green or pale gray contact lenses in my eyes... if my height doesn't make me stand out, everything else will!