Hi LadyRaven87;
Although I am not into men, your straight friend sounds very protective to me. I would if I was you get into a more of a relationship with him. He sounds as though he wants to look after you as a woman. Enjoy it, in fact revel into. It can be very fulfilling to you, if you want it. I have a friend who transitioned, had a male friend through that period that she was close to, started dating, then fell in love and got married. She is now very fulfilled as a housewife with a very protective and loving man. They make a great team.
Best of luck
Hugs
Judith Lynn