Quote from: transtrender on January 20, 2013, 01:36:40 PM
i still dont understand this thing like how orgasms are apparently totally different after hrt/after surgery or w/e
like
im seven months post op but
my orgasms feel pretty much exactly the same way they always have ??
??
i dunno folks this continues to mystify me especially when people start talking about the multiple stuff i mean like im sure if i kept going id get like another one after the refractory period was over but im not sure thats really the same thing? ?
I don't really think there is a difference, personally. Like between cis women and cis men, there is no difference, imo. An orgasm is an orgasm. It's like the same babble babble about how females have crappy 3D spacial mapping and can't be physicists which has now been pretty much entirely proven to be trash. My sis and I both score in the 99th percentile for that particular skill, so anyways... Basically male/female brains? Not super diff.
I think the only difference is the refractory period shifts. The extreme hypersensitivity post-orgasm doesn't last nearly as long as it used to now, which is, I think, just a factor of less erectile tissue. So it's like seconds rather than 10-15min (mine was fairly short pre-op, ya). The sudden drop in interest still happens, but you can push through that. And if you push through that period, it doesn't generally take as long to get off a second (or third, or fourth, or etc.) time. Which is what people talk about when they mean "multiple orgasms." Like if you keep going after the first, keeping the person in question turned on during the refractory period, you can get another orgasm almost immediately after the refractory period ends. So you can do a few orgasms in the space of a few minutes. (And there is some variance, some folks have longer refractory periods despite their equipment.) Or at least that was my experience with other vagina-having persons.
I've yet to actually work up the desire to try to go for two in a row myself, especially given how inanely long it still takes just to get one, post-op. I'm sure eventually I'll do the experiment. For science.