Trans*/Trans* relationships

[justmeinoz]

Currently in such a relationship.  We are together regardless of our transness, and just see ourselves as two women in love.

[Brooke777]

I never have but I definitely would. I think it could be an amazing relationship because the other would understand much of what I have been though and vise versa. Any takers? Haha!

Sure! But you have to come to me. 

[Bexi]

Definitely! I'm pansexual - so I like anything with a pulse hehe! More and more I find myself falling for a person, irrespective of what's in their pants.

That said though, I do harbor an affinity for trans*people. Knowing you're with someone who has been through what you have is a great mutual bond.

[also the sex is pretty amazing]

x

[suzifrommd]

Not sure what option this would be. I've never been attracted to any specific trans person, but if I were to meet one where we had a mutual interest, I'd happily go ahead.

[Annah]

i was in a mtf relationship once. Not a very good experience at all. It ended with me having to do a restraining order. This was about 3 years ago.

I have nothing against trans/trans relationships but im perfectly fine dating guys atm.

[Shantel]

I have always preferred to have a woman partner and would prefer a trans woman over cis simply because there is some commonality of mindset that is not usually the case between me and cis females. I find that not only do we innately know what blows the other's hair back during intimate moments, but there is much less drama to contend with, I have little patience for drama. I had a trans woman girlfriend but it became such an affront to my marriage that is was over before it really got strong. Still, if I found myself single again I would opt for a relationship with a trans woman over a cis female.

[Ellieka]

Sure! But you have to come to me. 

As long as you're within 50 miles :p

[Trixie]

I was in a relationship with another trans girl. We broke up (or rather, I broke up with her). The break up had nothing to do with our genders or sexualities.

[Kevin Peña]

Why not? 

[Joe.]

I voted for no but I would. I'm into a trans guy at the minute and he knows. We're not official or anything but we're just getting to know each other and taking things slow. I can imagine it being a nice understanding relationship though.

Joey

[Brooke777]

As long as you're within 50 miles :p

I'm within 50 miles of the Seattle airport. 

[cynthialee]

I am rather surprised by the results so far.

[Adam (birkin)]

How so?

One thing I find interesting is that, in terms of transition, it can really have two effects. It can tear a relationship apart, and cause two people with similar issues to tear each other apart, or it can create a very deepened level of understanding. I find that odd, to be honest, that there seem to be two extremes.

[Ellieka]

I'm within 50 miles of the Seattle airport. 

I'll get started on learning to fly

[Brooke777]

I'll get started on learning to fly

It's easy. All you need are happy thoughts and some pixie dust. 

[Jamie D]

Heck, at this point, I'm doubting that I will ever even date again, period. I've gone many, many years without, I suppose I could continue, plus the idea of being in a relationship of any sort scares the hell out of me.

What are you doing Saturday night? 

[Shantel]

What are you doing Saturday night? 

Wait,wait,wait, I wanted to ask her about Saturday night!.....grrrrrr Jamie D

[Kevin Peña]

Why not Sunday night? Seriously, why is it always Saturday? 

[Ms. OBrien CVT]

Sunday is when you always nurse the hangover.

[Kevin Peña]

Why not do what Bruce Wayne does and drink ginger ale, pretending it's some sort of alcoholic beverage? You won't be hung over and you'll actually remember the night before. 

Anyway, I still don't get the big deal. Can someone give me one good reason that trans/trans relationships are questionable? If I were to date a trans person, I'd feel a common understanding.